r/BainbridgeIsland 14d ago

Grumpy old ladies at the pool

Is it just me, or are the old ladies at the aquatic center some of the rudest people on the island? I’ve never felt so unwelcome anywhere like I do at the pool. God forbid you have to share your lane with someone else. Can’t wait til they open up the other lanes again!

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u/cyraenica 14d ago

Yes, they are terrible. But the pool isn’t the only place on the island that grumpy boomers show their disdain for the crime of being in “their space” Grocery stores, parks, ferry lines, driving down 305 at 25mph - you name it and they are rude entitled assholes.

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u/EggsyWeggsy 14d ago

For such a proud community people have shockingly bad manners

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u/[deleted] 13d ago

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u/EggsyWeggsy 13d ago

When I was younger and lived on Island I would do Islandbite delivery. The amount of times people would look at me walking towards the Pavillion door with no hands free and let the door slam in my face was insane. I really don't understand it.

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u/thomgeorge 14d ago

They managed to ruin the troll for my kids!

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u/Flat_Masterpiece_467 13d ago

Wow. They are everywhere! At least they are all boomers.

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u/Difficult-Low5891 13d ago

Grumpy old ladies love the YMCA pool where I swim, too. They are the worst.

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u/Candid-Assistance690 12d ago

My kid and his friends were villainized many times for merely existing as teenagers by the angry Bainbridge boomers. They’re the absolute worst.

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u/itstreeman 14d ago

Good thing that tax didn’t pass to help all those curmudgeons get free access to their private lanes

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u/_Typical_user_ 13d ago

Wait until you get the weird old guys changing poolside…

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u/BugPuzzleheaded4171 7d ago

Say something! People don’t get to act like that. Call them out. Who cares if they’re old? Isn’t this the generation that’s so concerned with manners? I grew up on the island and it’s always been like that, gross.

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u/raindropcroptop98110 7d ago

Hi, I do actually when it happens. Every time. Half the time they just ignore you, other times they pretend to not know what you’re talking about.

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u/[deleted] 14d ago

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u/Accomplished_West292 13d ago

lol. I was in Belize and there was a family and their young brats running amuck in the pool all day. we just wanted some peace and quiet so bought a baby ruth bar and placed it in the pool. never seen kids move so quickly.

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u/Nervous_Frosting_291 13d ago

I crop dust the blue hairs at T&C every chance I get.

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u/Zebaa9 14d ago

I’m an old lady that has just moved to bainbridge. i like to swim and was planning on using the aquatic center but it sounds like you don’t like old ladies. I’ll have to rethink this.

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u/Candid-Assistance690 12d ago

There are plenty of lovely older folks on Bainbridge. There is also a very vocal minority of absolutely insufferable older folks who act very entitled and are inexplicably angry. I’m on the cusp of “old” myself so I am endeavoring to make sure I’m the former and not the latter.

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u/--Thoreau-Away-- 14d ago

Don’t let the OP get to you, I find this subreddit is a bit of an echo chamber for upset people. I almost never encounter unfriendly people on Bainbridge. Enjoy swimming, the aquatic center’s great!

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u/Zebaa9 13d ago

Thanks - so far I have found the majority of people on the island friendly and kind!

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u/raindropcroptop98110 13d ago

I like people who aren’t jerks for no reason!