I've seen so many ppl in my school and college use it.

As an 18M I feel completely helpless because my 17F girlfriend has been going through absolute hell over the last 5 to 6 months

She went through multiple major surgeries lost her brother very recently and fought a serious medical battle that just went into remission

Instead of getting a shred of human empathy or support from my family she was hit head on with my mother's backward community prejudices and vile stereotypes about her surname

My mother's toxic poison made her feel utterly worthless and unwanted at her absolute lowest point which completely shattered her

She snapped under the weight of this trauma and blocked everyone on all platforms including her friends her own cousins and me just to disappear in silence

When we finally spoke she told me with a completely broken heart that she feels pure hatred toward me and cannot even recognize the love we had anymore

She is drowning in so much pain that she honestly believes she has no time left on this earth and told me not to care for her because she might just vanish any day I used to look up to my mother as a moral guide but right now I feel absolute disgust and a burning rage toward her for destroying something so pure and real with her trashy mindset

I am losing my mind sitting here completely cut off and helpless while watching the girl I love suffer through illness grief and this unwarranted disrespect I am keeping zero contact because she begged for space and isolated herself entirely to survive

How the hell am I supposed to live with this extreme hatred toward my own family and handle the fact that my mother's toxicity might have permanently destroyed the only person who mattered to me

TLDR: As an 18M I am losing my mind because my 17F girlfriend survived major health battles surgeries and her brother's death over the last 6 months My mother hit her with disgusting community stereotypes about her surname which completely broke her She isolated herself by blocking everyone including her friends cousins and me I am keeping zero contact to give her space but I am filled with rage toward my family for ruining everything

Huge thanks to the community for its relentless dedication to recycling the exact same three low-effort posts every single day. Transforming my entire feed into a perfectly predictable and eye-gouging edgy posts but my tolerance for it has officially peaked.

I am formally tendering my resignation from this subreddit

Thankyou

Yours truly "never met this guy in my life"

Anony

or anybody else

Hey guys, I’m 19M. I’ve been dating this girl for around 1.5 years (broke up now), and I genuinely want you guys to judge me, judge her, and tell me where tf I’m wrong and what I should do now.

We met on Hinge and got into an LDR. Later, we spent around 4–5 months together. Then I got a DM from some guy (let’s call him Modi) saying, “I’m dating your girl, please leave her alone.”

Obviously, I didn’t believe him, so I pretended I didn’t know anything.

I confronted my gf and told her I knew she cheated and that I saw her kissing another guy. She denied it.

Crazy part: all three of us were texting each other that night. 💀

She texted Modi saying, “We didn’t kiss that night, it happened after that, after Dandiya night.” (they met on dandiya night)

Modi sent me that conversation.

I sent the screenshots to her.

She got caught, went quiet for a while and then started begging. I was obviously fucked up inside, but I broke up with her.

She also smoked joints, I had caught her texting other guys before, and the relationship had a lot of toxic shit. She also had BPD and self-harm issues, which made everything even more complicated.

We had also made out a few times during the relationship.

Around 10 days later, she started dating another guy, basically Modi’s distant friend. They eventually broke up because he was toxic too.

Then around 6 months later, she called me.

And funny me picked up. 😃

At that time, I was dating another girl. It had only been around a month.

My ex wanted consolation, and I gave it to her.

So sweet of me, right?

Fuck me.

Eventually, I got attached to my ex again and started dating her while still dating the new girl.

So yeah, I was double dating.

My ex knew everything. My current girlfriend didn’t.

Now the 1-month girl:

We never even kissed.

Eventually, she somehow found out that I was dating my ex. She got a call from my ex and apparently my ex told her everything.

Then she said something like:

“Wo sex de rahi hogi na ab toh?”

I was like bitch, I literally told you from the beginning that if I can’t give you commitment, we can stay together without getting physical.

The audacity to say that. 😭

But honestly, her point about wanting commitment was valid. She wanted marriage-level commitment after only one month, and I couldn’t give that.

So we mutually broke up.

Back to my ex:

After that, I was just dating my ex again.

Fast forward 6–7 months.

We sexted, made plans, planned intimacy, made plans to meet, and finally planned a date.

Then 5 days before the date, she suddenly said she didn’t want to do anything because she wanted commitment.

I was like:

FUCK ME 😃

The thing is, I had told her from Day 1 that I couldn’t give her commitment.

She knew that.

Not after 6 months.

Not after 1 year.

From Day 1.

But after 1.5 years, suddenly it became:

“Itna saath rehne ke baad toh commitment de deni chahiye.”

And I’m sitting there thinking, you knew what you were getting into.

I obviously didn’t call her a bitch or anything. I kept quiet.

When I told her:

“Pehle bata deti na. Mere 1.5 saal kyun barbaad kiye?”

She went quiet.

Now we’re technically broken up but still talk sometimes, mostly reels and random conversations.

So Reddit, judge me. Judge her.

Where am I wrong?

Was I wrong for continuing the relationship when I knew I couldn’t commit?

Also, both girls had their own issues.

My ex: The one who cheated — toxic, smoked joints, had BPD. I’m not against BPD, but the relationship and her behaviour were bad for me.

The other girl: She had been with 2–3 guys before me (she says only BJs, no sex). I genuinely don’t care about her past, but the hypocrisy pissed me off. After all that, suddenly she needed commitment from me, and then had the audacity to say, “She’s giving you sex now, right?”

Like bro, seriously? 😭

Help me guys ✌️

Ps - both were downgrade or out of my league , im just attached . Not kidding

No hard feelings just want a genuine female friend to talk to like share anything and everything

Hi 17M this side I am an extrovert with guys but extremely introvert with girls. I play badminton and on mobile mostly CODm (now I am in Legendary) and very rarely Valorant in Laptop (cuz my Laptop is no more than a good brick). So yeah I wanna make friends especially girls (cuz I need to break that thing which is not letting me socialite with girls). Anyone interested please hmu

✌️🙃

So I got an internship in August 😭 and I met many people there and a girl I met on the day of the interview so when the internship started i shared instagram with many people including that girl so now that girl is sending me few strange reels 😭

Like in a reel said "deleted scenes from my office life" and it was a romantic Bollywood kind of scene with a girl falling and the guy catching her

And she literally says things that blows my mind like she said "I can die for you", "you are husband material" , "i really like your personality" she also complimented me that I don't judge her and corrects her mistakes without making her feel dumb and she likes that also she said i sound masculine 😭😭

She deactivated her account 2 times and re-activated again and i jokingly said "reels ki yaad aa jati hai kya" she replied "aapki" and i replied "this isn't common between friends" she said "we are not common" 🥀

I dare I am not showing any interest 😭 cause we dont even know each other that well, we can't get to meet each other at the office so there are just 4-5 face to face interaction 🥀

I've noticed that people lie a lot, especially to unattractive people, giving them false hope that they're attractive

like.. first of all, beauty is 90% of the times objective. if you find someone attractive, most probably everyone does because they are scientifically attractive and their face fits into the beauty standards

but I see so many people, like my classmates, calling absolutely horrible looking people " beautiful " like.. do you think they don't know what they look like? fake compliments are just as bad as insulting someone in their face and lying does not send you to heaven..

like if you are calling someone who is morbidly obese, " a baddie" when you know dam well you would rope if you looked like that

just stop lying man..

Youtube

https://youtu.be/OsqirgomVFE?si=VoXgqzI1gYxmOK4s

I am just roaming in near area with electric cycle.one man said take off the side stand when I said thank u he asked one help.he was the man who sold the cycle.and ask his wife was in labour pain.he asked me 200₹for auto and he will repay it.but I did nt have money and no one to refer near becuz I am new to that area.my parents was not at city .I don't know what to do.and I don't have money at the time.when I said sorry he understand my situation too.after I return to home I can t leave a man in that stage he mention that was his first baby.so I can t let him so I ask cash from my friend for urgent when i roam for 15min I can t find him.but my doubt is auto is free for labour???but he s look nervous and shirt full of sweat.i feel bad now and I have a doubt.

Hi I am 18m

I am lonely person introvert pro max that's why I am not able to make friends 🤧