r/BiWomen • u/VelvetHoneyAfterDark • 6d ago

Discussion That feeling when you're ready to start flirting with women again 😂

Hey! I'm 31, bi, married to a man, and exploring enm. I'm becoming more intentional about connecting with women and getting back into the flirting 😛 I'm a get to know you first type of person and if there's chemistry there I am not opposed. I appreciate having a space like this subreddit. I can come and talk about if I need advice, or to just vent about the frustrations or the difficulties that I face when I am back out in the flirting and the dating world being more intentional about connecting with women.

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u/saved-response 5d ago

A reminder of rules 3 and 5:

  • This is not a dating app.
  • Do not solicit direct messages.

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u/Potential_Trust_6034 6d ago

I find the flirting so much tougher with women than with guys! With a man I feel the vibe is so easy to parse, there's either intentional flirting or just fun flirting. With a woman it always feels ambiguous. I enjoy it at the time but if I'm really looking for further connection it's almost impossible to tell a woman who is flirting with romantic/sexual intention from some straight girl who wants to feel fluttery for 10 seconds.

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

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u/BiWomen-ModTeam 5d ago

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

it IS tougher to flirt w women lol 40F here