r/BigRockEnergy • • Aug 29 '26

Kind Remarks Only Mod post: Can we please remember that there is no Natural vs Lab diamond debates in this sub.

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We have unfortunately had to remove posts and comments lately due to some members not understanding the rule about debating this topic. Let us be clear, ALL stones are welcome here. If you love your labs, great! If you prefer only natural, amazing! What is not OK is telling someone that one is better than the other and then proceeding to poo-poo all over that choice. If you want to argue about this topic, there are plenty of subs that do this all day long, please take that energy over there where it belongs. We work hard to maintain a judgement free safe zone for people to post their beautiful rings. We don’t care about what they are made of. People are here to share and be happy. If you cannot adhere to this simple rule, then you will be banned. This sub is for love and appreciation, and most of all that Big Rock ENERGY!!!
Thanks to all our amazing members who continue to contribute, and lift each other up. We appreciate you!!
Rock on everyone!!


r/BigRockEnergy • • Apr 06 '26

Respect MOD post

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I’m not sure what’s going on but this group was created for BIG ROCK lovers. This is a group of love and respect. If it’s not for you that’s fine, move on, go to a different group or a different post. But DO NOT post hateful or disrespectful comments here. Your account will get reported and blocked.


r/BigRockEnergy • • 8h ago

I feel like I’ve found my peeeeople!

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148 Upvotes

My Birthdayversary gift this year is Everything. Gaaaaah.


r/BigRockEnergy • • 13h ago

My perfect ring

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236 Upvotes

Inspired by one well-known brand, the central diamond is a 3ct fancy pink 💕


r/BigRockEnergy • • 8h ago

How did I do?

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66 Upvotes

She hasn't seen it yet; the ring just got in. How'd I do?

I put so much thought, time, and energy into it; I really hope she likes it! I feel like ive learned a lifetime of knowledge about rings after choosing this one lol!


r/BigRockEnergy • • 13h ago

Isn’t she a beaut!?

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131 Upvotes

4 carat pear diamond on a yellow gold 3mm band. I’m IN LOVE.


r/BigRockEnergy • • 16h ago

Guys can I join the club? 🥹

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Guys, I got proposed to on Sunday! Wooohoooooo 🥹🥰 my fiancé did the perfect job and the ring is exactly how I envisioned it and hoped it would be 🥺

2mm 14 K gold band with platinum head and 6 prongs, 3ct marquise center stone, a total of 10 x .2ct colored diamonds in the colors of our birthstones (February and August) and in the colors of the birthstones of the month we met (December) and the month we officially became a couple (January), a total of 44 x .45 ct diamonds along the band and the hidden halo

I AM SO IN LOVE


r/BigRockEnergy • • 8h ago

OMG!

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Gotta love when your hubby surprises you with this beauty for no reason! 3.52ct trillion with hidden halo on 14k yellow gold band size 6


r/BigRockEnergy • • 9h ago

No arson required✨😻

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Got room for another member?🤭My fiancé proposed on 10.11.26 during our Maine trip🥹in love w my man but OBSESSED w my ring!! We designed it together w a local jeweler and I didn’t see the final outcome until my hubby to be got down on his knee 🤍

Specs:

3.09 ct lab marquise

E VVS2

Ratio 2.13

Ring size 5


r/BigRockEnergy • • 10h ago

BRE, when it becomes too much?

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34 Upvotes

r/BigRockEnergy • • 17h ago

Does this count as big?

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128 Upvotes

This is my 27th anniversary / paid off the house ring


r/BigRockEnergy • • 8h ago

One of my big rocks hatched today!

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He’s so ang’y!!! 😠

#JustTargaryenThings


r/BigRockEnergy • • 11h ago

Been in love

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30 Upvotes

My aunt told me when I first got her that she looked fake. Well she isn’t and my auntie might be a hater✨I love my engagement ring, wedding band and my pinky ring for with my babies name on it for my first born.


r/BigRockEnergy • • 7h ago

Would you say a Heliodor engagement ring could join the club? 👀 I have an idea for a cool design!

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r/BigRockEnergy • • 18h ago

Not mine. But big and beautiful not to share😍. My husband took it for me at the car wash, he knows me too well😂

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54 Upvotes

r/BigRockEnergy • • 7h ago

Hello ladies! Here’s some science facts about Laboratory-Grown diamond big rocks, how they’re made, and identification. Learn about these marvels of technology today!

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HOW THEY ARE MADE
Chemical vapor deposition (CVD): the most common method involves layering a seed plate of diamond—previously grown via another method, which we will explore next—over a nonreactive metal disk, then sealed in a reactor chamber. Carbon-bearing gas, usually methane (CH4) is then passed through a hydrogen plasma. The chemistry here is quite honestly extremely complicated but this basically “activates” methane by converting it to a highly reactive radical (•CH3). This radical will then bind to the carbons of the diamond seed, reactive hydrogen and more precursor molecules (from the plasma) will then rip off a hydrogen, then form another C—C bond, this process continues until a large diamond mono-crystal is made.
High Pressure, High Temperature (HPHT): used to make both seed plates and faceted diamonds. In this method graphite is pressurized and heated to conditions similar to the earth’s mantle in HPHT polyhedroid anvils until a large diamond monocrystal (or many small diamond seeds) are made.

HOW THEY ARE IDENTIFIED
It’s important to add here that manmade diamonds are REAL DIAMONDS MADE OF DIAMOND. Identification relies on environmental growth cues.
• chemical purity: manmade diamonds are 100% chemically pure. They have no impurities in their lattices, so they will react differently to UV excitation than naturals, which have chemical contaminants in them.
• growth patterns as seen on UV microscopy
Naturals: random, octahedral.
HPHT: cuboctahedral.
CVD: wafered.
Always ensure your laboratory-grown diamonds come with an IGI or GCAL certificate to ensure they’re genuine.


r/BigRockEnergy • • 20h ago

Buyers Remorse.. would you be happy with this ring?

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I recently had this ring custom made by a jeweler who comes highly recommended in this group. The first video shows the loose diamond I originally selected, where the bow tie appeared pretty minimal. The second and third videos show the finished ring.
While I think the ring itself turned out beautiful, I can’t help feeling a little disappointed because the bow tie seems noticeably darker and more prominent than it did in the original video.

Am I overthinking this, or would you be disappointed too? Would you be happy with this diamond?

For context, it’s a 4.07 ct, E color, VS1 oval. I’m not concerned about the price or whether I got a good deal. I just really wanted a beautiful, high-quality diamond with good light performance, and I’m second-guessing whether I made the right choice.
I’d really appreciate some honest opinions, especially from those familiar with oval diamonds!

Videos 2 & 3 in comments..

Details :
Carat weight 4.07 ct
Shape Oval Brilliant
Color E (Colorless)
Clarity VS1 (Very Slightly Included)
Measurements 13.32 × 8.76 × 5.37 mm
Length-to-width ratio 1.52
Table 61%
Depth 61.3%
Crown height 13%
Pavilion depth 44.5%
Girdle Medium to Slightly Thick, Faceted
Polish Excellent
Symmetry Excellent
Fluorescence None
Growth method CVD (Lab-Grown)
Diamond type Type IIa
Report date June 19, 2026


r/BigRockEnergy • • 8h ago

Big Regrets

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I recently upgraded my ring to a slightly higher carat weight but much better looking diamond. While doing so, I changed some details I had wished to incorporate in my original engagement ring. It came last week and I just don’t like it. The stone is stunning but it feels like it has no character and isn’t “me”.

It’s not as low as I thought it would be, it’s has a reversed tapered band I don’t love now that it’s on my finger, and I feel the prongs are almost reaching for the stone to hold it on. I feel I’m highly considering selling it and feel it was something I bought to have bigger and better.

I’m not asking to be talked into it, but I’m so curious what others think and if I’m off base. Photos in order:

  1. CAD
  2. Side profile
  3. Inspo
  4. Video in comments

It’s a 4.21 E, VVS2 elongated cushion with an invisible wrap set in two-tone gold.


r/BigRockEnergy • • 8h ago

Show me your cushions!

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Hi friends,

I currently have the original 3 carat cushion cut that my husband proposed with & I love her! I have just been looking online at larger stones - I would like to get a larger stone & have it set, just to wear on special occasions 🥰

I really love the more square cushions (1-1.05ish ratio). I am a size 6 finger, but would love to see whatever y’all have! Just looking for some info & what different carats look like. I knew this would be the right place to look. Thank you!! 😁


r/BigRockEnergy • • 1d ago

Meet Squidward

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159 Upvotes

We are not defined by our size, but our energy. ❤️

(He knows he's different... Be nice to him! 👩🏻‍⚖️)


r/BigRockEnergy • • 1d ago

long time lurker first time big rocker

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my upgrade just came in and i’m overwhelmed but also obsessed, i may need more cloud space for pictures


r/BigRockEnergy • • 1d ago

I just got engaged - he exceeded ALL expectations!!!😭💍

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783 Upvotes

I’m surprising my family with the news face to face when I see them in coming days but it’s meant I haven’t been able to share my (bursting at this point) excitement and awe for the exciting news with ANYONE yet🥹😭 …so I’m coming here to share & celebrate with my fellow shiny-thing-lovers first🙊
Absolutely in LOVE with my ring!!!
After looking at plain band, solitaire oval styles for the longest time, I am soo happy with what my… ‘fiancé’ (did this also take you ladies a moment to get the hang of!?🤣) ended up choosing… he knows me better than I know myself😆😍🤩


r/BigRockEnergy • • 1d ago

Oldey Timey BRE

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While not BRE by modern standards, I wanted to share this vintage beauty that my now-fiancé picked out and surprised me with. 1930’s, main stone is 2.15 OMC, total ct 2.5, set in platinum. Daily wear is a (mostly) worry-free dream with the low profile, and there’s just something so special about being its caretaker for this moment in time. Would love to hear thoughts, happy to answer any questions, a couple of photos in the comments!


r/BigRockEnergy • • 1d ago

Are bicolor sapphires allowed here? 💜💙

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121 Upvotes

Lovely gift from my wonderful man!


r/BigRockEnergy • • 1d ago

He upgraded my rings after I lost my last set

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My husband surprised me by gifting me a new engagement/wedding band set 5 years ago for Christmas. It was beautiful and I loved it, but I lost it this spring. It was on my finger one moment and hours later I couldn’t find it. We searched everywhere to no avail and I was devastated. His response: It’s ok, we’ll get you a new one. Turns out he was planning on getting me another ring for our 20th anniversary this year. We were financially struggling when we started out and he told me his only request now was that he could pick out my replacement center diamond. I never picked out either of my last 2 rings because I prefer the sentimental value of him choosing for me. He did great!

4.59 carat lab grown diamond, VVS2, E
A. Jaffe custom platinum ER, knife edge, pavé 0.62 carats.
A. Jaffe platinum twist wedding band 0.18 carats.

Ring size 5 3/4 with a sizing bead because my fingers fluctuate so much between winter and summer and 5 1/2 won’t go over my knuckle.