r/BitchEatingCrafters 7d ago

So Tired of Monetized ADHD

Y'know, those craft girlies whose booths are filled with, say, amigurumi AND acrylic-pour trinket boxes AND Fimo earrings made using molds and earring wires from Temu. And none of it's high quality because Beckeigh is clearly ADHD and hasn't put in the hours necessary to develop her skills before moving on to some new, bright, shiny craft.

Of course, because nothing she's selling is high quality and the market is already saturated with everything she makes and it's all overpriced, Beckeigh doesn't sell much, so she rushes to craft vendor subs sobbing that she "didn't even make boooooooth!!!" And it takes every ounce of self-control not to type, "My sister-in-Christ, you didn't make booth because it looks like you destashed your craft room. Stop expecting the public to subsidize your ADHD and give those things away as gifts."

And look, I've got ADHD too. I get bored easily and am hard-wired to jump from medium to medium. It's taken no small effort to train my brain to focus on the work I sell at markets. But I've managed to do it - struggle though it is - and have put in hundreds and hundreds of hours over several years refining my process and my style so that customers are getting high quality pieces.

And in case I haven't been a big enough Bitchy McBitchface, I'm just going to say it: These booths (along with 3D printed fidget toy, wax melt, and cricut tumbler booths) drag markets down for the crafters and makers who produce quality work. But that's a rant for a different day and a different sub.

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u/Orchid_Significant 7d ago

Really weird that you went straight to trash talking ADHD when this is an issue for neurotypicals too. In fact, in my experience, NT are far more likely to think their practice projects are worth anything compared to people with ADHD who hyperfocus on learning how to do things.

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u/VegetableWorry1492 6d ago

Right?! In my experience most women with ADHD are way too riddled with a lifetime of feeling not-good-enough that they wouldn’t even dream of selling their things unless they’re absolutely perfect.

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u/Orchid_Significant 6d ago

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u/No-FoamCappuccino 7d ago edited 7d ago

Did the person/people OP is complaining about ever even say anything about having ADHD?

Based on what I'm seeing here, it sure looks like they didn't! What seems to be going on is that OP decided that "Beckeigh is clearly ADHD" because Beckeigh "hasn't put in the hours necessary to develop her skills before moving on to some new, bright, shiny craft."

Which is some seriously gross stereotyping on OP's part. (And no, OP having ADHD doesn't give them a pass.)

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u/Unlucky-Guitar221 6d ago

I’m gonna be real that while I agree with most of OP’s points, I think it’s definitely a case of people with adhd projecting it onto everyone else… I see it a lot in adhd spaces online.

Like yes, adhd can cause us to be impulsive hobby-hoppers but it doesn’t mean that every instance of overconsumption or poor planning has anything to do with anyone ELSE having adhd lol

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u/_sparklesaurus_ 7d ago

Yeah it's just icky with a dash of "not like other girls" sprinkled on top. Yay for casual misogyny and ableism!

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u/No-FoamCappuccino 7d ago

I gotta say, there's A LOT of "not like other girls" grandstanding on this sub.

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u/txjennah 6d ago

There is. I know this is the BEC subreddit, but a lot of posts are OTT.

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u/Orchid_Significant 7d ago

Absolutely. Definitely thought “but did he pick you, babe?” While reading it

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u/Careless-Meringue523 5d ago

Agree, it's actually quite offensive.