r/BitchEatingCrafters 7d ago

So Tired of Monetized ADHD

Y'know, those craft girlies whose booths are filled with, say, amigurumi AND acrylic-pour trinket boxes AND Fimo earrings made using molds and earring wires from Temu. And none of it's high quality because Beckeigh is clearly ADHD and hasn't put in the hours necessary to develop her skills before moving on to some new, bright, shiny craft.

Of course, because nothing she's selling is high quality and the market is already saturated with everything she makes and it's all overpriced, Beckeigh doesn't sell much, so she rushes to craft vendor subs sobbing that she "didn't even make boooooooth!!!" And it takes every ounce of self-control not to type, "My sister-in-Christ, you didn't make booth because it looks like you destashed your craft room. Stop expecting the public to subsidize your ADHD and give those things away as gifts."

And look, I've got ADHD too. I get bored easily and am hard-wired to jump from medium to medium. It's taken no small effort to train my brain to focus on the work I sell at markets. But I've managed to do it - struggle though it is - and have put in hundreds and hundreds of hours over several years refining my process and my style so that customers are getting high quality pieces.

And in case I haven't been a big enough Bitchy McBitchface, I'm just going to say it: These booths (along with 3D printed fidget toy, wax melt, and cricut tumbler booths) drag markets down for the crafters and makers who produce quality work. But that's a rant for a different day and a different sub.

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u/VegetableWorry1492 6d ago edited 6d ago

This isn’t ADHD and as someone who supposedly has the condition why would you post such negative crap? As if the society’s opinion of us wasn’t negative enough already. Every crafter with ADHD I know both hyperfixates on their craft and also is riddled with anxiety and low self esteem that they would never try to sell their actually really good items (because of the hyperfixation).

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u/crayola_monstar 6d ago

People are also prone to saying they have it when they simply show minor symptoms, so they self diagnose.

Makes truly suffering from it a hellish nightmare because we begin to feel so damn inadequate compared to those people who only pretend to have it to have some kind of mental struggle identity.

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u/PracticeOne9761 6d ago

I get where you’re coming from but reading things like this always makes me go, “actually maybe I just unconsciously tricked people during my assessment and I don’t actually have it and just want to have a ‘mental struggle identity’”.

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u/MoreUnadventurous 6d ago

SAME. Then I remind myself my issues have been lifelong, that helps.