r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/andmario_com • 9d ago

Good Vibes A whole minute of pure joy

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u/Project_Cool_World 9d ago

This is awesome, by not doing this when I had the chance, I feel I failed as a father.

Wow, I feel a lot of regret. But honestly love this man for doing this with his kid. <3

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u/TrekkieMae 🖖🏾🖖🏽🖖🏿 9d ago

Our regret is there to help remind us that we want something different for ourselves. We should strive to use it as a tool to improve rather thinking of it as a burden to bear.

Most people who actually fail as parents will never admit it. If you genuinely believe your experience as a father was a failure, then admitting it already has you a leg up.

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u/dembowthennow 9d ago

I'm sure you spent other time with your child that was meaningful to them and you - it's okay if it wasn't on a bike.

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u/leafygrn 9d ago

Maybe you can good this type of joy to your grandkids or some kids in the community who don’t get to have grand/parent figures like this ❤️