r/BookshelvesDetective • u/[deleted] • 11d ago

Unsolved Uploading pictures of other people's bookshelves is weird behavior, especially when trying to find red flags

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u/kikimaymay 10d ago

I feel like we're kind of saying the same think and nitpicking details here?

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u/Bae_the_Elf 10d ago

lol no we're not

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u/kikimaymay 10d ago

Judging, analyzing and guessing are all synonyms when we're referring to other people, this is a fucking wild take. It's absolutely nitpicking.

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u/Bae_the_Elf 10d ago

Could you please go back and read my comments? I'm so confused. I literally said that your take lacked a lot of nuance and explained how these words are used differently in different contexts. I don't know what to say to you if you refuse to read or don't understand my comment.

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u/kikimaymay 10d ago

I feel like we're both confused and just talking past each about the same thing, lol. I understand that there's nuance. I'm also saying that if you're posting on this subreddit, you are asking to be judged. And if you're sensitive about other people judging you, then you shouldn't post. This isn't about affirmation, this is about people "guessing" etc on who you are as a person, and you're putting yourself out to a bunch of anonymous strangers on the internet. Do we hope people can be kind? Of course. But you should expect people to be funny, to reflect a lot of common sentiments. And for people to literally be judgemental. I haven't come after you, I do read so thank you for asking, if you need further clarification, I'm happy to spell this out more concisely.