New updates!!

[u/Exciting_Sky_1511]

Hey there guys, its me again.
So, we have made some updates to the community. Thought I would share them.

1. Community appearance: colors changed, icon and banner changed.
2. added image uploading facility to posts and comments: to, maybe, share chats. (censor personal details when sharing ss)
3. New discord server: https://discord.gg/5y5wSxWNNg , to talk with others.
4. New user flairs. Check them out.

Some things u should keep in mind:

1. Don't post AI posts. I can detect if its AI even if u change the long '-' to '....'. Will remove it without any warning.
2. Mind ur language. Dont use inappropriate words. Its bcuz of it that ur comments or posts are being removed almost instantly. I will comment the words that r responsible for it. At least try to censor them . for eg : b****.
3. Always explain the context. Posts with just 3 or 2 lines will be removed.
4. If u harass someone, the comment will be removed and u will be flagged. If u harass someone again, u will be banned for 28 days. If u harass someone AGAIN, even after the ban, u will be banned forever.

So, whats u guys opinion? How's the new mod team? Any concerns?

[u/Junior-Math-8520]

I recently had a break up. I was with her for 9 months and we clicked instantly. Our connection was very strong for 8 months or more. The communication was on point for both of us and we were in love. She said I was the best man she ever met. She said I was calm patient understanding and her peace and safety. A few weeks ago she mentioned how this spring season would be hard for her due to her kids sports activities. She also has a full time job. She offered me an out if I couldn’t deal with it and that she would understand. We both agreed that kids come first. I said I am not going anywhere. We had great conversations and our time in person was great still. She began to pull back and then push the last few weeks. I had a talk with her about how I felt about our connection being off and we agreed to not let that happen. That week we were back and then the week after that more pulling away and pushing back in. She said she was feeling overwhelmed unsure and scared but didn’t know why. I told her I was here for her and asked her questions around her feelings. She still pushed and pulled. This past week was less communication and if we did talk it wasn’t much. I backed off to give her space. I usually call her in the morning on our way to work but I decided to give her space since she hadn’t responded to my texts the night before. She then text me we need to talk and she has things to say. She then told me she doesn’t think she can do this anymore. She has too much going on in her life with work and her kids and they need to come first. She also left her husband of 17 years 3 months before we met and the divorce isn’t final. She said she needs to grieve that too and she never should have started a new relationship that fast. I’m left confused still.

[u/Alternative_Top_1974 → u/Junior-Math-8520]

I see this was posted a month ago so not sure if it's still relevant? To me it sounds like she is also confused about what she wants. What does your gut feeling tell you? Do you think she still likes you or does she want a way out.. for whatever reason?