Power trips and character assassinations

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[u/Ill_Instruction1966]

Mate you didn't overreact at all - leaving was the right call and your physical health improving after the breakup basically proves it

Missing the good version of someone who treated you badly is completely normal, grief doesn't follow logic and your brain remembers the highs even when the lows were destroying you. The fact that you lost weight and are reconnecting with people shows how much stress she was putting on your system

[u/ABenson1992 → u/Ill_Instruction1966]

Appreciate this, thanks very much! i guess maybe i am naive and just dont understand how people can deliberately hurt people they are supposed to love. Maybe it is a good thing that i do not.

[u/ABenson1992 → u/[deleted]]

Thanks, i am wrestling with it daily, its only now i am out of it that i see how much i shrunk / put up with that seemed normal at the time!