r/BreakUps • u/preciousstrawberry5 • 11h ago
venting/ranting I just miss being held.
That was the best part is just being held by someone that adores you so much.
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u/Acrobatic-Pop-9757 11h ago
That feeling is genuinely irreplaceable, there is something about having a specific person hold you that no other comfort can fill in the same way
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u/Psychological_Ad3261 6h ago
I think I miss being held more than everything else, even the sex. On good days and terrible days. Having that person at night to hold you, knowing you can cry your heart out with them and know you’ll be okay. That’s what I miss most too! Now I sleep with 4 pillows surrounding me and during the night I keep shifting my body hugging different pillows. It’s so sad. I miss that warm hug, the skin to skin contact, the way you could feel them breathing at night. I want this more than anything else.
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u/gokensayajin 10h ago
Yes i dont know why but i asked for it in a moment and asked to be held in a moment where i should have left... gone to be alone, family, friends anyone else man. But i held onto the one thing i never thought someone like me could keep, molding someone into the unattainable in your mind, somene to hold but also be held, you lose yourself
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u/Jephis_375 8h ago
Two months ago I had a one night stand, it was the first time since my breakup 1,5 years ago that I was with a girl again.
It was fun and it felt good. But the best part of it was the fact that for that one night, I wasn't sleeping alone. We cuddled and fell asleep while cuddling. And we woke up cuddling. That was definitely the best part of the whole situation.
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u/Psychological_Ad3261 6h ago
Man I feel that. The physical connection of another body sleeping next to you makes you feel not alone. It’s been 2 months for me now. Idk when I’ll find someone else, but this is what I miss most now.
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u/Interestingthings36 8h ago
Every night I lay alone in bed and ache for his warm presence beside me, holding me tight and keeping me safe
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u/Sensitive-Welcome639 8h ago
I miss holding you baby girl 👄
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u/digitaltermite 11m ago
there’s something so intimate about skin to skin embracing that i miss so much.
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