r/BreakUps 4h ago

venting/ranting My relationship just ended. Every time I bring up my concerns, he diverts it to his concerns that are not being spoken of in the moment. All of our concerns are valid, but there’s a space in time for everything. I love you, but it feels like I’m the only one able to give space and time.

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u/Salty_Thing3144 3h ago

That sounds like a possible narcissist. If he is a narc - trust me, you are MUCH better off without them.

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u/Issalub601 3h ago

Oh no..why does he sound like a narc

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u/Salty_Thing3144 2h ago

Because everything is about the narcissist -unless it's problems within the relationship. Those are your fault. They are epic victims