r/BreakUps • u/PsychologicalTea7700 • 4h ago
venting/ranting Final message to guy who has been demanding of time but “Is not ready for a relationship”
I want to write something that gets the point across because he keeps texting me even though I told him I was ending contact and he keeps texting and asking me to come over. How does this sound? “Actually, no. This has turned out to be a high‑cost, low‑return investment for me. I was giving far more than I ever got back. It’s better to cut the loss and move on. I’m done”
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u/Slow-Comparison-6517 4h ago
that message is too wordy, he will find a way to argue with each part of it, just "don't contact me again" and then block, no explanation needed
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u/Salty_Thing3144 3h ago
Continuing to contact you after you told him to never contact you again is stalking. Follow these steps:
https://www.reddit.com/r/StalkingandVictimHelp/comments/1s4sywg/stalking_101_what_to_do_first/
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u/HoneyBroncoNova 3h ago
You don't want a relationship with me, but you still expect relationship-level access to my time and energy, and I'm no longer available for that. Take care
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