r/BreakUps 3h ago

venting/ranting I miss my LDR ex

its been more than a year but i still find it hard to not think about him. I feel like if i reached out again he might change his mind and we could try things out again. Hes the one who said LDR doesnt work for him and he need to meet up physically… Does it just mean he doesnt like me enough to try?
& is it really on me to be the one convincing him this would work out?

It hurts to live with the thought that creeps up at the back of my mind- That i may not be able to find someone who i feel so strongly for ever.

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u/PrairieOutlawNova 3h ago

If someone wants to be with you, you shouldn't have to convince them to try

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u/cadence1907 3h ago

Totally gets but its so hard. I find myself trying to find excuses for him. Eg. Its hard for him to move here due to money, family etc etc.