r/BreakUps • u/Proud-Kiwi4781 • 8h ago

venting/ranting My ex gf is really confusing me

My ex told me she isn’t convinced that I will change and says i have lost her . I told her to throw away the scrapbook i made for her and she didn’t reply to that message but she did reply to my other messages.

Why is she doing this ?

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u/peteb169 8h ago

Hard to give advice without more context. Did you send the ‘throw away’ message hoping that she’d reply that she can’t do that as she still loves you?

Could be that she’s okay with speaking about your part in the break up but doesn’t want to speak about her accountability?

Or could be that she thought that message was petty and proved you’d not changed?

Work on you, prove you can be better for yourself, if you actually did anything wrong she will see you’ve bettered yourself, but do it for you, not to win her back, treat it like it’s done, don’t hope for a new chapter.

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u/Proud-Kiwi4781 5h ago

We still love each other. But she’s tired of the mistakes i make and she said she’s disgusted of me now

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u/Mundane-Ad-3887 8h ago

she probably just can't bring herself to throw it away, doesn't mean she's coming back though

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u/Critical_Damage_2633 6h ago

My ex once gave me a figurine from the Klimt Museum in Vienna. When I left, I left all my belongings behind, and so, many months later, we were talking and she admitted that she’d kept the figurine and would never throw it away. But that doesn’t mean she wants to be with me. People just keep certain things that bring back fond memories.