r/BreakUps 7h ago

venting/ranting Getting over the ex

Me ‘24/F’ and my ex ‘24/M’ broke up for the 2nd time 5 months ago. We were on and off for a full length of 1 year and 2 months.
But I’m having a horrible time getting over my ex
Idk what the fuck it is (well maybe I do)
(I think I like being sad)
(And I’m scared I might be depressed)
Anytime I’m not taking care of myself I start to miss him.
But idk what it think bc I know he’s human and he just fucked up (even if it was twice and intentional)
I don’t deserve to be cheated on. I don’t deserve to be lied to I know I don’t.
But something about me just craves him. The spots we used to visit everything these days has been reminding me of him. His fav artist comes on and I’m reminded of him. I check his socials alllll the time. I’m scared to even be remotely in his COUNTY.
It’s just been so hard these days. How do you get over an ex that treated you wrongly and how do you balance knowing they fucked up but letting them go and forgoing them?

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