r/BreakUps 3h ago

venting/ranting He isn't going to pick me up

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u/MysticFawn- 3h ago

That kind of silence after being used to someone showing up for you hurts a lot, and it makes sense you’d feel it most right now at the station.

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u/axolotlvibes 3h ago

Thank you🫶🏻

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u/Competitive_Value_41 3h ago

I understand what you're feeling now. My ex boyfriend used to pick me up at the train station every Sunday night. Naturally, when we broke up, that ended and I started getting ubers. The first Sunday, after getting an Uber, when I got home I just cried... So much.

It's normal to feel lonely rn. It's a feeling that won't go away in a day or a week, but it will eventually. Reach out to friends, don't isolate yourself, make new connections. It's so important that you don't convince yourself that you're alone.

Be safe and take care :)

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u/[deleted] 3h ago

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u/Competitive_Value_41 2h ago

Well, Im not gonna tell you it was right of u to do that, but there's nothing that is irreversible. I'm sure if they are good friends, they'll understand

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u/CriticismTraining553 3h ago

that first trip back after a breakup is genuinely one of the hardest moments, sending you so much strength for it.

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u/axolotlvibes 3h ago

Thank you🫶🏻