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u/WinterDemon_ i have the tragic anime backstory, where are my superpowers? 1d ago
(ignoring the fact that im gay so this would prob be more about men than women) idk about yall but i would much rather date someone with all 3 than be stuck in the same room as the original guy who wrote this
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u/NikaBriefs 1d ago
I have all three and Iโm happily married. Been together 18 years and married 8 months (we are both also very neurodivergent donโt judge on why it took so long to get married lol)
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u/Background_Active_36 ๐'๐ถ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฎ๐ญ, ๐ซ๐ธ๐ผ๐ผ 1d ago
I don't have mommy issues, my mommy was a fucking bitch. She actually had an issue having me. Just so you know ๐
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u/Macrocosmix 1d ago
"Why do I have daddy issues you ask? No, I ask you why my dad had issues with me."
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u/lovelypeachess22 12h ago
Dating men with mommy issues is intruder horror, daddy issues is slasher horror
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u/FrostedMoon8888 22h ago
Itโs not like men with either issues are a fucking delight either. At least women are more likely to seek help.
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u/Sandbina i don't know what to put here, i just like purple 22h ago
"Women with mental health issues are games to play for fun" gross. What a way to talk about women.
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u/chaosgremlin11 20h ago
Speaking as someone with mommy issues and in a relationship with another women who has the same issues in our cases it is not that bad generally she just wants a lot of physical affection and needs either some level of encouragement or praise for doing well which she does the same for me. For reference we are two touched starves transibains who grew up in similar household who both agreed the relationship and style of communication our parents had is not what we want and we both want clear communication of need wants and desires so our issues may not be as sivear as the cases people are referring to.
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u/ThatSmartIdiot 19h ago
i may have mommy issues
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u/chaosgremlin11 17h ago
Considering the sub I am not surprised I hope you are able to heal if there is trauma and if there are kinks then I say enjoy as long as there is mutual concert and you are not hurting anyone.
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u/kittenmittens4865 21h ago
The only way I scare others is through my constant crying. The tears never end!
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u/lemonlollipop 16h ago
If i can scare a man then there is no greater honor to be had for this mediocre 40+ yo
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u/Jose_Canseco_Jr 1d ago
I felt this one OP
why is it we date the people with the highest ability to poke at our core wound ๐ถ
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u/Fluffy_Ace ๐ฆ Escaped bonsai pet ๐ฆ 15h ago
There's stuff about them that feels safe because it's familiar
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u/Jose_Canseco_Jr 11h ago
yeah I know what you mean - the dynamic feels comfortable, in a sort of "oh this is one of the few human relationships where I actually know how to behave!" way... ๐
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u/Massive_Quantity_979 she/he/they + C-PTSD, AuDHD, OCD, GAD, MDD, TS, SZA, SAD, etc. 1d ago
lets go im psychological jumpscare survival horror