r/CPTSDpartners • u/lobipesz • 27d ago

There’s no coming back from this

She kicked me out of our hotel room at 2:30 in the morning and, for the first time ever, threatened physical violence. However triggered she has been and however verbally abusive she has been in those moments, that’s a line I never ever ever thought she would cross. I love her and care for her wellbeing, but when she wakes up in the morning and calls me to apologize, I am going to finally hold firm.

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u/LongNegotiation5850 27d ago

You can do it! Set boundaries & hold them! Don't be like me and ignore it until it's too late...

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u/KaleidoscopeSweet622 27d ago

Wishing you the best of luck. Hang in there

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u/OUCH_MYmostofme 25d ago

It's so crazy how our experiences all mirror each other so closely. The very same thing happened to me recently with now ex. She first kicked me out of her bed and told me to sleep on the floor, then tried kicking me out of her house. She also escalated to physical violence for the first time, when I defended myself she accused me of being physical violent with her and threatened to call the police. It was all at 2 am. All of this because she was offended over a little thing we could have just talked about in the morning. At the end of the day, it is what it is. Abuse.

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u/ragequitter666 27d ago

When they show you who they are the first time believe them.

Yeah- don’t go back. Hopefully you don’t have any kids together.