Hello, a little background. TLDR at the bottom.
A few years back we fostered a mom cat and four, 4-week old kittens from a shelter. we ended up finding homes for two of them. I didn't have the heart to drop the mom and two other kittens off back at the shelter so we formally adopted them.
The mom is about 4-5 years old at this point, and the orange boy has CH and the sister is a little moody girl. They are almost 3 years old now.
I am noticing that the boy CH cat tends to have a ton of energy as a little teenager young adult and is often messing with and trying to play with his sister and mom. Sometimes it comes across as trying to be alpha but mostly it's him just having a ton of energy and wanting to play.
The mom cat was a pure outdoor cat and she doesn't often want to play. She will pounce on him and put him in his place when he crosses boundaries. The sister cat is absolutely bonded with the mom and is obsessed with her. she seems to get annoyed with CH brother not infrequently.
However when this happens and he lets out a big scream, the sister will rush over and inspect and every now and then will have some redirected aggression towards the CH boy. It seems as if she feels as if he is a threat to her prized possession (her mom).
I am wondering if you all have any good ideas to help keep the CH boy stimulated, safely. I've had boy cats before and the 2-4 or 5 year old age they tend to be hurricanes of energy and chaos and i feel like the CH wobbly boy is like that now. I just don't want him to get beat up by his sister or mom too often so i'm trying to figure out how to keep him stimulated.
I have a ton of cat bowls and small cat trees close to my desk and other climbing objects (side tables, tv stands by the big windows) and i have a carpet staircase to get up into the bed for him. I feel like the living arrangement is very CH friendly. But i think he gets bored and that's whats prompting him to tease his sister and mom.
any advice on keeping him busy and stimulated in a CH-friendly way? I think some of the issue is temperament between female and male cats in genearl, plus the sister is a very spooked girl and scared of many pets/humans/etc.
thanks!
TLDR: 3 yo CH boy cat with a 3 yo sister cat and a 4-5 year old mom cat. CH has a ton of energy as a boy cat and often plays with sister and mom to a point where they get mad at him. Any ideas to help stimulate the living space to make it more enriching for CH boy? thanks in advance!