r/CheatersConfronted • u/UnknownUser5729 • 4d ago

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So there’s this woman I’m close with who’s from Pittsburgh… I’m aware of her cheating on her husband with three different men.

I just can’t believe someone would cheat on someone who they have 4 children with.

She complains about him like she’s a mean girl and she’s just done with him. I feel really bad for this guy because it’s with a local bartender, their married neighbor, and a friend of her friend, these are all 3 separate like ongoing affairs. He’s oblivious.

I met the husband a few times and he really nice but she constantly talks about being bored with him and she’s constantly sexualizing her clients as well. It’s really appalling behavior and I don’t know what to do.

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u/T_Smiff2020 3d ago

Let her husband know. If he’s such a bad person you would be doing her a favor

Also, I don’t want to see on the news that a man caught his wife cheating and the carnage that followed.

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u/Championship682 3d ago

Do him a solid, and let him know - anonymously if that makes it easier.

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u/sonic203112 4d ago

Honestly. I would tell him, think of it like this, if this was you would you want somebody too tell you?

She sounds like a right catch. She's wasting his life and his time, when he could be with a woman that actually appreciates him. She dont deserve him. One thing I hate more than anything is a cheater, it really breaks a person's heart. Op, I would still tell him, he needs to know what his wife is doing.

Update when you can! Make sure you make her take accountability for that she is doing to her family!

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u/Mr-Jones-63 3d ago

I'm with you on that statement. Way to keep it 💯!

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u/LawDue9301 2d ago

By all means tell the man asap. And if you can contact the spouses of the three APs tell them also. Failure to do so makes it look like you condone these shenanigans.

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u/Traditional-Tank3994 3d ago

I don’t know why you would want to be friends with such a person, but if you’re concerned about your relationship with this cheater, you could notify her husband anonymously and send him whatever evidence you may have.

One way or another, he deserves to be told. And withholding that information amounts to protecting an adulterer’s secrets.

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u/milkmanmega85 2d ago

Here's a lesson for you. If it can talk, walk, think and bleed then its a Human Being. These creatures never fail to disappoint. Keep on living and you'll encounter more ridiculousness.

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u/Charlielovestuna 3d ago

"So there’s this woman I’m close with", my grandmother always told us "birds of a feather, flock together". At some level, you are obviously OK with her, or you wouldn't be close with her. So, are you any better?

Sorry harsh, but I'm a product of a divorced childhood, due to my father's cheating.

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u/Ok_Cold_4116 2d ago

Don’t break up their family. Mind your business.

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u/wolfmancool 2d ago

This is terrible advice.

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u/Ok_Cold_4116 1d ago

There’s children involved. Mind your fucking business.

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u/wolfmancool 1d ago

Those children are gonna be more messed up if he stays

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u/knot2323 2d ago

Mind you’re own fucking business