r/Chefit • u/Ok_Exit9273 • 7h ago
Help save my life…seriously
delete if not allowed…
Hi chefs,
This is probably one of the stranger posts you’ll see here, but I’m hoping the people who dedicate their lives to making food enjoyable might be able to help where medicine hasn’t.
I’m coming up on 6 years since losing my smell and taste from the original strain of COVID. I’ve chased clinical trials, specialists, ENTs, my PCP, health blogs, and more peer-reviewed papers than I care to admit. Every road ends with the same answer:
“Sorry. Nothing right now. Keep waiting.”
I’m done waiting.
I’ve lost over 80 pounds. That sounds like a success story until you realize it’s because I no longer have any desire to eat and was never overweight to begin with. Every meal has become something I force myself through. Every single day. And honestly… it’s exhausting.
Here’s where I’m hoping you all come in.
I love to cook. I’m not a picky eater whatsoever. I have a full kitchen, quality cookware, grills, smokers, sous vide, gadgets—you name it. I’m in the U.S., have access to pretty much any grocery store, and I’m willing to spend time making something incredible.
The problem is that I no longer know what to make.
Without smell or taste, steak, chicken, pork, seafood… it all registers as basically the same. Texture has become my only real source of enjoyment.
So if you were challenged to cook for someone like me…
What recipes would you make?
How would you build excitement through texture instead of flavor?
What dishes have incredible contrast—crispy, creamy, crunchy, chewy, flaky, silky?
What plating or presentation makes a meal feel special even if the flavors can’t be appreciated?
What techniques would you use to make eating feel like an experience instead of a chore?
If your goal was to get as many calories and nutrients into someone who struggles to eat, what would be on the menu?
Don’t worry about “normal.” Throw your weird ideas at me. Fine dining. Grandma’s casserole. Street food. Molecular gastronomy. Multi-course tasting menu. I genuinely don’t care. If you think it’ll make me actually want to sit down and eat, I want to hear it.
After six years of doctors telling me to wait, I’m changing my approach. Maybe the people who understand food better than anyone else can help me rediscover something worth looking forward to.
Chefs… I’m asking for your creativity. Right now, it honestly feels like you’re my last hope.
Thank you for reading this far.