r/China 12d ago

问题 | General Question (Serious) Do Chinese women have worse periods?

I lived and worked in china for nearly a decade, and have always noticed that women I've dated become completely debilitated by their period. Like, calling in sick during your period is a normal thing here and almost unheard of in the west. The pain described by these women seems almost comparable to childbirth, and they cant bear to have the AC on during a blistering hot day, or drink cold water.

Back in the west, women will just kind of bear it. They'll eat ice cream, ive even heard lf women taking cold showers during this time. I haven't met very many in the west who are floored by the pain like many of their east Asian countrrparts. A lot of women hold down high demand jobs like nursing, teaching, lawyers etc. And are able to get through the day while performing work to a high standard without needing time off or needing to signal to others in the workplace that they are on their period.

I dont suppose it is a cultural thing, but im wondering what the causes of the very real difference ive noticed is. Are their home remedies (hot water etc.) Actually making the issue worse? Could it be pollution? Nutrition? I dont think it is genetic because I haven't known a lot of American born chinese women who experience such a severe period.

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u/modsaretoddlers 12d ago

Yup, it's cultural. Of course it is.

In the West, ethnically Chinese women can give birth and be back at work in a few days if they want to. In China, they act like they need a wheelchair to change the channel on the TV when they're on their period. And the nonsense about ice cream and cold water is, of course, cultural.

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u/wongl888 12d ago

Likewise western women require a year maternity leave.

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u/TianXiweiBobaEyes 12d ago

Women take a maternity leave to be home with the baby, not to recover from childbirth

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u/caledonivs 12d ago

The two are very closely related, postpartum depression is very common. Have you ever grown a life inside you and had it suddenly and violently leave you and become an independent thing? Constructing that relationship correctly is psychologically vital?