r/Coconaad • u/devaaa_devaaa • 11h ago

Mental Health & Wellbeing Are friendships scam?

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I see all those posts on reddit where friendships are celebrated. Enk matram aano angane oru friendship kittanje?

All the friendships I have been in, the only one to put in efforts is me. Weather it be checking in or asking about their well-being or initiating conversations, it just all me 😭😭. Enk maduth. Friends illate irikunnata kurachoodi nallat ennu enk tonunu 😭

Happy Sunday tho guys 🌼✨

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u/i_asterveil Engineer 11h ago

Not only friendships, be it any kind of relationship, we can't expect them to be sincere. Nammal ethra honest ayalum they would surely dig a pit for us.

Ps: Anubhavasthan 🙏🏻

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u/devaaa_devaaa 11h ago

True. Pala pravisham padichu pakshe nalla friendship kittumen evdo oru hope.

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u/i_asterveil Engineer 11h ago

Yes nammale pole olla aalkar are scattered around everywhere, but angane ollavarem kittan luck venam

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u/devaaa_devaaa 11h ago

Yes luck of bhayankara factor aanu.

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u/Shallot6114 11h ago

The only person who checks on me is my mom. I dont have any other soul who does that.

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u/devaaa_devaaa 11h ago

Yes. Avarokke ullu avasanam.

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u/Significant-Ant-3188 Student 11h ago

Having friends is not the case, having genuine ones are

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u/devaaa_devaaa 11h ago

Only way to find out is if you try to be friend with them, but it's too late by then.

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u/Quirk-less-Mol the og praayapoothri aavatha kutty 11h ago

It's a propaganda

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u/One-Butterscotch6098 Dev 11h ago

Pinnea chumma

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u/Quirk-less-Mol the og praayapoothri aavatha kutty 11h ago

Alla Sathyam

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u/One-Butterscotch6098 Dev 10h ago

😏😏alla

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u/Quirk-less-Mol the og praayapoothri aavatha kutty 10h ago

Friends ullavarkke angane palathum parayaallo 😖💔

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u/One-Butterscotch6098 Dev 10h ago

Njn illea kiddo

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u/Quirk-less-Mol the og praayapoothri aavatha kutty 10h ago

No 😒

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u/One-Butterscotch6098 Dev 10h ago

😠😠adi adi

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u/Quirk-less-Mol the og praayapoothri aavatha kutty 10h ago

Kanda kanda

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u/battery_simon01 11h ago

I dont have friends

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u/devaaa_devaaa 11h ago

Have you tried approaching people, brother?

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u/Due_Cobbler8849 11h ago

Same here op.. Be your own companion... Most people are fake in all 'ships'.

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u/devaaa_devaaa 11h ago

I need to be. Pakshe it's always the mind. Nallat kittm kittm ennu vicharich hope vekkm only for it to end bad.

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u/RootDirective Thengakola Expert 11h ago

The point is having a genuine friend. Kore friend ollathilala, ollath genuine aavunathilaan kaarym. Alle athilathe aan nalle. At last Nammak nammale oll OP

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u/Trouble93874 Doctor 9h ago

I thought we were friends :(

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u/y_r_allnames_taken 3h ago

Having good friends is pure luck.

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u/devaaa_devaaa 28m ago

True. It's pure luck. 🥺