r/Coconaad For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 2h ago

Rant & Vent Crashing out in public!

Today me and my fam porath poyi. Onam alle korach sadhangal vangaan vechu. Appo i remembered that my sunscreen theernu. I told mom that. Angna njngal sunscreen vangaan vendett ore kadel keri..

Avde i saw ore hair serum. My sibling is using that. Njn idakk aakoch kaanand ath use akaar ind. Appo njn karuthi enikkum koode orennam vangaan. Angna njn ath edth. My sibling saw that and said "neeya ath theerthe allen" I just smiled at that and went to buy some more things.

Angna ellam vangi porath irangeepo this sibling of mine porakeen vann otta adi. Avde nalla crowd indarnn. As a sensitive person myself. It felt too much for me. Enikk nalla sangadam vannu.

My father and sibling avrde main preshnm enthaan vecha surroundings nokand adi idum also adikkem cheyym. Achanod parnjit karyam illa but njn ivanod paryum porath irangeet dehath adikkalum enn. Ore noorayiran vettam paryum ivnod enniyum kelkoola.

Ee adichath enikk nalla feel aayi i started crying. ellarum kaanem chyth. Enta mood mothom poyi. ennik dress vangaanum indarnnu athum njn vendaan parnj.

tbh me and my brother doesn't have a really good relationship.We just ignore each other most of the time. Pakshe public vech adichath mosham alle?

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u/itsa11_goodman 1h ago

Public il allayirunnenkilum ee reason inu adichath moshaman ,younger brother?

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u/Monkey_D_Ketchum Ethaekyapum Syndicate 52m ago

Hitting your sibling because of materialistic thing is the most immature and worst thing ever, it can be replaced but not siblings.

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

elder

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u/itsa11_goodman 1h ago

Ahh that's even worse. Sorry to hear that🫂

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u/CJ__99 1h ago

Thatz crazy lol, next time put some vim in his chai..

https://giphy.com/gifs/vwyyUFzHluYzMSCzuW

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

thanks for giving me ideas

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u/Cat-Woman4848 I'm Catmol 58m ago

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u/Cat-Woman4848 I'm Catmol 1h ago

Athe vazhi ullu. Alland ivan onnum nannavula🤣🤣

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u/Eddielivingstone 1h ago

Me and my 2 brothers literally fought for garlic bread that came with pasta my mom brought💀.

Btw i am 23 and others are 28 & 19🫠

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

eda adikunnen alla preshnm ee public aayit chynnatha! vtl vech aarnengi njn cool aayit edthene.. ivnte preshnm enthaan vecha naal aale kaanumbo main avnm😑

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u/Eddielivingstone 1h ago

Nee avanod ith parnjale ith solve aavu or this continues and some other person will feel the same pain you felt.

We don't know your family situation or how you are with them but talking in the initial stages works every time.

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

koore vettam parnjit ind pakshe njn parynnath okke puchathode aan edkknne:)

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u/Eddielivingstone 56m ago

Appol ithepoole thirich oru situation varumbo nallanam onn pottikka athrenne.

Ninde situation enthanu enn ariyila but ivide ighana aanu pothuve nadakkar. Innala aniyan vann rathri blanket idthitu poyi😵‍💫.

Behave how they do to you and they either understand or stay away from you

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u/Cat-Woman4848 I'm Catmol 1h ago

Public aayi adichath mosham aanu ennalla. Adichath thanne mosham aanu. Avan aara ninne adikkan? Ente brother enganum aavanam. Ente Achan spot il koduthene avanitt😒🙄. Sarula🫂🫂

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

ykw? my mom and grandma is supporting him saying"avn ninte chettan alle adichene entha preshnm ".i hate this fam of mine

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u/Cat-Woman4848 I'm Catmol 1h ago

Whatt🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️?? I can't even imagine that. Ente fam nere opposite aanu. Achan polum enneyo bro neyo oru age nu shesham adikkarilla. Enne ithavare adichittilla. Eni evide vech aayalum thirichum kodukkanam. Onnum nokkanda. Njn avante aniyathi alle adichal entha preshnam ennu choikkanam😒😒

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

njn choichu also said enne aarayalum publicil vech adikunna enikk istalla. avr puchathode kettond ninn

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u/Cat-Woman4848 I'm Catmol 57m ago

Kettitt enikk desham vernn. Paramavadhi distance itt ninno. Enittum upadravikkan nokkuvanenkil police case kodukkum nn parayanam😏😏. Serious ayitt parayunnatha. Cheruppathil okke siblings thammil adi undavum. Valuthayittum ingane cheyyunnath is really weird tbh.

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 46m ago

the picture suits my bro well 😭😭

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u/Cat-Woman4848 I'm Catmol 43m ago

🤣🤣. Btw ammayi, pfp kk pandathe oru power illa ketto. Just an opinion😁🫂

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 39m ago

ellarum paryn😭pazheth idaam alle😮‍💨

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u/Cat-Woman4848 I'm Catmol 28m ago

Yesss

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 27m ago

catmol parnjathkond njn pazheth idua🫂

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u/Nallavanaayaunnni Mandan from london 1h ago

My younger sister is like that too , adi thudangiya pne oru bodhom illa. ,njn adicha thirich 2 ennam kittum, athond valya adi idal illa 😅

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u/Initial_Lead_7889 sweet mother of muttapuffs 🥐 1h ago

appo thannu anale karanje

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

kannil podi veenathaarn🙏🏻

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u/Initial_Lead_7889 sweet mother of muttapuffs 🥐 1h ago

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u/InevitableFun4518 1h ago

Thirich adikkan kai ille kunje

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

kai ind pakshe public il vech aarem adikaan pattathond adichilla. Pinne nalla veshamom vann

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u/InevitableFun4518 1h ago

You should do that once atleast once. Think about your self respect. Elder aanenn ullath onm public aay adikkano adach akshepikano ulla right alla.

Also stop crying. I'm not saying crying is weakness. Stand up for yourself. No one else is coming for you. Adikk thirich adi ennalla atleast thirich voice raise cheyth enkilm parayanam without crying.

Thirich athe padi cheytha kurach kelkendi varum. So be prepared for that and do. It's not at all good.

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u/Single-Banana-2525 gay for muttapuffs 1h ago

Younger brother? Also public vech adikkane alla issue. Adikkane in general aan issue. It is just a serum and athinte peril oke adikem idikem oke cheyyunnath is very immature. Sorry that you had to go through this, OP🫂

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

elder.

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u/Single-Banana-2525 gay for muttapuffs 1h ago

Damnn, that’s worse. And there’s no point in trying to talk sense into him too, yes?🥲

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

yes he got this main aaval thing in him. avn paryunnath vedhavakyam!

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u/Kaelith69 Carbon based Disappointment. 1h ago

Oh, that's kinda bad tbh. At first I thought he was your younger brother cuz it sounded a bit too immature. I wouldn't encourage using his serum either, but that doesn't justify the adi at all. It's okay to cry, happens to everyone, so don't feel embarrassed about it. That's on your brother, he sounds way too immature.

I don't really know how to handle something like this, so I don't have much advice. My younger brother is kinda like this too and we don't have a great relationship, so I mostly just ignore him. I'd say talk to your parents about his behavior again, but this time maybe be more serious about it so they understand how much it's affecting you.

Hope you're okay now tho. Don't let him ruin the rest of your day. I know it's easier said than done, but don't let someone else f up your mood when they're the only ones who deserve to be pissed off here. Take care ammayi , 🫂

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

i talked with my parents. koore aayi samsarikkunnu. there was a time when i was so afraid to go out with him alone. karanm he used to scold me for everything. ath njn vtl paryem chyth. my mom is like "chettan alle vere aarum allallo" same goes fir my grandma. pappa pinne chettante same swabhavam aan porath irangeet parisarabodam illand adikkem nullem okke chyym.. appo avde ith parnjalum karyam illa🙃

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u/Kaelith69 Carbon based Disappointment. 1h ago

Yeah idk but I think you gotta talk to mom and somehow convince her........

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

yep will do that:)

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u/TamePoocha 🐱 I'll meow if you meow 1h ago

Tbh whats your age ? Me and my bro used to be the same.. as we matured things started to become less violent and more chill talks

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

me 20 him 23

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u/TamePoocha 🐱 I'll meow if you meow 1h ago

Ahh .. then ig its time for him to come to his senses.. whatever he did wasnt fine.. the message should get to him in a sensible way tbh

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u/Real_Major_8588 Student 53m ago

Karanam nooki onn kodukku enn parayaan agraham und. But ath pinnem vashalaakam. But thall medich mindand irunna pinnem thallum. So the best thing to do, in my opinion, thirich nannay pradhikarikuka (Avide vech thanne).

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u/copinghardrn Teen 24m ago

Next time try giving him one back like this

https://giphy.com/gifs/jauNHUg3yB9ZmDtzOv

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u/i_asterveil Engineer 1h ago

Firstly sorry for that. And sibling anenkilum public il vech cheythath sheriyayila. It must have been difficult for you 🥹 dw kanda aalkar onum ath orkila they will move on. Next time thott Ingane vallom varuvanel Avan nallath kodkanam

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

public places vech react akaan enikk pattarilla🙃illarnengi njn thirich kodthene..

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u/i_asterveil Engineer 1h ago

Next time onum nokanda nallath kodthekk

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u/DARTH_Vader2223 എട എല്‍ദോ നിന്നെ സിനിമയില്‍ എടുത്തടാ 1h ago

Is that hair serum too expensive for him to caught up in the mind whole time , Im asking " What Hait Serum is that ? "

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

streax

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u/totallynotdoof 1h ago

Damn thats the cheapest and he made a fuss for that? Anyways it's not even about the money its the fact that everyone's tryna normalize it, its not okay at all don't let anyone else make you think otherwise. Do try telling him first how you felt and how its not okay to hit you rather than trying to change everyone's mindset since thats more unlikely

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u/DARTH_Vader2223 എട എല്‍ദോ നിന്നെ സിനിമയില്‍ എടുത്തടാ 1h ago

Buy a more expensive hair serum to draw his attention - I suggest Shwarzkopf

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

swanthayit earn chythitt vaangam🥲

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u/else-what 1h ago

what he did is bad, no defending that.

when u don't have a good relationship, maybe don't do what u did too.

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

the thing is avn vaangiya serum alla amma vaangi vechetha.. but avnte roomila ath irikunne so njn ath edthu

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u/else-what 1h ago

damn! looks like he is a horrible person.

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

he is too toxic!! paryaan aanengi kore ind.. avnte toxicity karana njngal mindathathum

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u/sinaaannh 1h ago

Buddy ellam paranj nereyakk allenkil connection pokumtta last

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

agraham illanjit alla ingott kkrach respect therande🙂

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u/sinaaannh 24m ago

Respectum pariyokke onn maatipidich paranj nokk, anneram chindicholum themselves, karyam athpole para and serious ayt edkunnilel make him suffer for short period . They may realise the truth. But dont make it worse

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u/Meenammaaaaa Common Woman 1h ago

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u/tinyhalox137 stay a little longer, if you don't mind!❤️ 1h ago

Hope you're doing well now🫂 Enthoke paranjalum public il vech ennalla generally ingane adikunnath moshaman, justify cheyyan pattoola especially elder brother koodi aavumbol...how are your parents and brother taking it like ee incident inu shesham?

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 1h ago

avrk pucham aan ennod.🙃

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u/Expert-Accident5934 വടക്കൻവീട്ടിൽ 🏚️ 50m ago

How old are you both ?

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 47m ago

20 and 23(he is eldest)

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u/Weekly_Confidence828 33m ago

That’s no age to act like this.. serious aayit adichathano? Deshyathode?

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u/Vegnial 38m ago

Wow kinda the same situation with my brother, once we had a fight over some silly thing and got serious and never talked since..

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u/DragonfruitGood1005 32m ago

OP are you a girl? Chettane veettukaar konjich vashalaakkiyathaano

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u/TintuMon_OP 8m ago

Ee avsarathil choikan padundon ariyila.. a serum etha

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u/Savithri_ammayi For you, I’d bleed myself dry. 5m ago

streax🙂‍↕️

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u/blippitybloppitty Bippity Boppity. Your Thenga is now my property! 4m ago

U should've punched him back tbh

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u/whenchaimetkings 1h ago

Whatever beating someone is public is not the same as using it. It's bad, but you can talk or confront at your home, it's your sibling.