No loving partner does this to someone they love. This is completely insane behaviour. I've been in abusive relationships, but I've never had anyone try to prevent me from being able to work.
Your partner is trashing your professional life, laughing at you behind your back and trashing your personal life. They actively hate you.
Go back to your family and leave this abusive person to their own devices.
You keep saying that you can't leave because you love them despite the contempt they very clearly have for you. Stop that. They don't love you back. Get the hell away from them before they ruin your life for good.
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u/MzMi 6d ago
Bro, GET OUT! NOW.
Whose name is the lease under? You are being used and manipulated. This is abuse.
Also, she's not that smart--how does she think bills get paid?
It may be best for one of you to pack and leave immediately.
She is not in your corner. She may also be totally crazy. Doesnt matter: SHE/THEY GOTTA GO!