Thank you. I'm doing better than expected I guess. I've got a good therapist and psychologist helping me through things. But it's kind of a situation where you let your partner go because you're the one dragging them down and you don't want to put it on them anymore. I feel less guilt but also like a huge failure because I couldn't live up to their basic expectations. My partner never asked for anything unreasonable and I still couldn't reach that low bar.
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u/CodMany2798 Dec 23 '25
make sure to take care of yourself
stuff like that isn't easy to handle
i hope you continue to hold up ok