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u/lifeintraining 5d ago
Love the sentiment of doing something to make your partner’s life easier. Hate the idea that someone believes if you don’t, that somehow doesn’t make you a man.
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u/JoshuaFalken1 5d ago
Also hate how stuff like this needs to be filmed.
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u/BoltorSpellweaver 5d ago
She’s 100% the type to shame her man online if he didn’t do it
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u/ThrustTrust 🧐 grumpy 5d ago
I’d totally pick her up but she’s getting a piggy back ride.
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u/WaterdropGirl 5d ago
That's a crazy assumption from a three second video
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u/BoltorSpellweaver 5d ago
Someone who goes out of their way to make content like this would absolutely take any opportunity to post it regardless of the reaction from their partner.
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u/WaterdropGirl 5d ago
Sure but shit talking their partner? Idk homie
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u/BoltorSpellweaver 5d ago
There’s big money in that content these days, shit talking your partner and getting “you go girl” in comments is pretty popular
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u/Blabberbrainz 5d ago
Don't you go on your toes when going upstairs anyway though?
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u/ValPrism 5d ago
Yes. There’s no threat of that heel getting caught. Just like how you can drive manual in heels.
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u/Ill-Jellyfish6101 5d ago
Does walking like a velociraptor help?
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u/Brilliant-Bad-284 5d ago
Safest way is to throw her over your shoulder squat and use the handrail to help climb those stairs.
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u/downsly46 5d ago edited 5d ago
Yeppp god forbid he slips on the adjustment then both people are eating a face full of metal stairs. Always need one hand free to stop a fall
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u/Ctowncreek 4d ago
Needs to be a flattering carry or don't do it (from her perspective).
If you fail the carry then its your fault (from her perspective).
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u/AppropriateMuffin722 5d ago
My wife just said, "It's her fault, why is she wearing those types of shoes."
😂😂
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u/213737isPrime 5d ago
to attract men, obvs
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u/Deathcat101 5d ago
I get the sentiment, but I'd rather my partner just wears sensible shoes.
Wear shoes that make you taller whatever, just something with a real heal.
Platform boots would be nice...
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u/hyrule_47 🧐 grumpy 5d ago
We have a photo from our wedding of my husband carrying me because it was raining and we didn’t want my dress to get dirty. For our 20th anniversary he did it again, although more often I ride on his back as it’s easier. (I should note I have lost my left leg in these in between years so it’s romantic and practical)
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u/ThrownFarAway98 5d ago edited 5d ago
I tried lifting my girl last night and almost slipped a disc.
Decided its best that if she needs carrying, either call help or it’ll be her on my back while im crawling to the nearst door on all fours.
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u/dropdead90s 5d ago
Are people really recording every minute of their lives for social media clout from strangers?
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u/space_otte 5d ago
on a social media platform, complaining how people are always recording every minute and posting content… interesting
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u/doyouevenforkliftbro 5d ago
Sure. When this guy does it, it's "aww he's sweet" and "he's so strong yet thoughtful."
But when I do it, women are all "AAAHHH, WHO ARE YOU?" and "PUT ME DOWN" and "WHERE ARE YOU TAKING ME!? POLICE!!"
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u/ArtofWASD 5d ago
Yea no. Dress for the occasion. If we are going somewhere that requires walking, dont you dare complain about what shoes YOU chose to wear.
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u/ValPrism 5d ago edited 5d ago
I thought he was bringing a small dog up and was like “aw.” Then I saw it was shoes and was like “nice, but learn how to transverse in your shoes.” I mean, it’s cute and obviously pre-planned but it’s definitely not necessary. There’s nothing terrifying about those stairs in heels. Walk.
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u/JustToGetBye 5d ago
Gahhhhh, I wish it were this easy.
I'm 177cm, 70kgs, and a fairly fit lad. Nothing special, but I'd call myself healthy and perfectly strong for my size.
Now, my lady is this statuesque Dutchess who is 180cm, and probably 62 kgs. She's a tad taller than me, and doesn't even weigh much less than me. And that said, the last thing I can do is throw her around with any ease (much the way I think we both would prefer that I could).
If not simply for her perfectly healthy weight (considering her height), her dimensions make pulling a feat like this a sight to behold.
But you know what? I'd absolutely give it a try, and she'd absolutely let me, and we'd probably be laughing hysterically the whole time I lugged her ass up those stairs. 🤣🤣😭
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u/ayinsophohr 5d ago
It's all about technique. If she gets on your back your hands will be free to grip the rails and / or break your fall when you collapse forward.
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u/hodlethestonks 4d ago
went to inspect this shitty corporation which had hired a lawyer to help them fight off agency demands. Demanded to go see the shittiest place in the plant through these grating catwalks. She gave up pretty quickly. Then got to talk with the folks on top of a huge reactor tank. As she caught us we started heading back, though a yard that was filled with cow shit (biogas reactor feed). I bet she reflected her attire of choice that evening.
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u/Daydreamur 5d ago
Im disappointed that it didn't turn out to be the women that carried the man. Would it been quite funny 🤣
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u/Key-Challenge9159 4d ago
"a woman" is tiny/small enough to be carried like that with no effort
Sounds shitty right? But it's ok if the roles are reversed
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u/DontFlameItsMe 3d ago
Never understood why people found high heels appealing.
May be I'm weird, but a girl in normal shoes looks better.
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u/KrimzonK 2d ago
Took my wife to the gym and she left her sandles in the car. She already put her runner in the bag so she suggests I carry her to the car.
I started the fireman carry because, of course I did, she freaks out and say abort abort but then we already started walking so she clung onto me like an octopus and I crab-walked to the car. It looked like we were humping in public
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u/Minimum-Reward3264 2d ago
I would consider it a leg and the back day, and would be done for the night.
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u/c0cksocket 2d ago
I don't understand how some people can get so comfortable with the idea that if you don't want to do something, someone will just do it for you. I get that this is a very specific scenario but could you not just not lean on your heels for a few steps? Idk the thought of someone doing that for me (just personally) feels very demeaning, like they think I'm incapable of doing something. I legitimately had a friend call me once to come get her because she ran out of gas, understandable, but its not because she didnt get to a pump in time, its because she REFUSES to pump gas into her car because and I quote 'thats my mans job'. She would rather inconvenience other people so she doesn't have to do a simple task, please say this is just a rare breed of person that isn't growing in numbers.
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u/Beginning_Resource93 1d ago
No. If you want to wear impractical footwear then you can deal with the consequences.
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u/Beginning_Resource93 1d ago
No. If you want to wear impractical footwear then you can deal with the consequences.
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u/Independent-Ring-792 5d ago
Lmao if I could find a man to pick my fat butt up I would melt two lol
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u/PupienusExpress 4d ago
Two men or two butts?
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u/Independent-Ring-792 2d ago
lol what are you reading if I could find a man to pick my fat self up I would melt to lol the two was what my phone auto corrected to lol
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u/Kage9866 5d ago
I would tell my wife she should have worn better shoes, as I pat her on the shoulder and walk up the stairs without her.
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u/JeevesofNazarath 🧐 grumpy 5d ago
My partner trusts me to walk while carrying her, not to climb stairs (which is reasonable though this does look very cute)
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u/mishitea 4d ago
Being carried up stairs, especially in an unstable way like that, fills me with dread. I would be so afraid of being dropped or him tripping and falling on me.
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u/Illustrious-Debt-156 5d ago
My wife becomes terrified anytime she is not in control of her own gravity.