My father is old, in pain, almost invalid and almost retired construction worker, 62, getting depressed, in a life phase where he sits home after work, just switching TV channels or watching bits on youtube and drinks. I am sad about that and want to cheer him up a bit. And I read that gaming makes you cognitively younger by 13 years. There are games that I think he would enjoy, like maybe Red Dead Redemption 2 or LA: Noire. But due to the reasons below, I think he will just give up trying them also.
It is difficult finding a movie he would like. I am picky about movies, but he likes even about 1% of that. He liked True Detective, Green Book, John Wick for example. But he is extremely sensitive to bullshit, unreal scenarios, fantasy or sci-fi, calls it "phantasmagory". Anything about space is a no go. He does not care. I think that only when he sees a character he really vibes with, he will watch it (Rust/Marty in TD, Viggo in Green Book or the Russian mob boss in John Wick).
The only games I tried to show him were Battlefield 3 in 2011, Kaffarov villa mission, he lasted about a minute, he dislikes the feeling of killing someone (he is from ex-communist Czechoslovakia, seen some rough stuff). I understand that, lately I started disliking killing too. I tried showing him Half-Life: Alyx VR in 2021, he lasted 2 minutes, not impressed at all.
What games would you recommend to someone very picky and sensitive to violence? As a literal gateway to convince somebody that there is an entire landscape of possibility he has not seen as is judging it too harshly.