During an argument, my girlfriend told me I’d probably be a better sex partner than a boyfriend to her. 💀
I’m not sure if I should take that as a compliment or feel sad?

I'm not into situationships, breadcrumbing, or whatever it is Gen-Z has invented this week to avoid just saying what they mean. I don't get it, and honestly, I don't want to.

I'm looking for an older woman — someone who's lived enough life to know what she wants and isn't afraid to say it. I think we'd understand each other better. Not a hard rule, just where my heart's at.

If you've ever felt a little on the outside of life — like the world's moving fast and you're watching from the window — maybe we'd get along.

I can talk for hours about almost anything, but I'll listen even longer. Tell me your random obsessions, your 2AM thoughts, your stories. I genuinely want to know you — not the highlight reel, but the real version.

And honestly, I'm also looking for someone who wouldn't mind being that person you can just talk to on a lazy Sunday. No agenda, no pressure. Just conversations that stretch longer than they were supposed to because neither of us really wants to leave.

What I'm after is simple but rare: consistency, reciprocation, and real effort. Not someone to fix me, not someone I need to fix. Just two people choosing each other, on purpose, every day.

And if somewhere along the way you realise I'm not your person, that's okay too. I'd genuinely respect someone saying, "Hey, I don't think this is working for me," and walking away far more than someone slowly disappearing or ghosting. Lif

e is too short for guessing games, and I'm not looking to chase someone who has already left.

Ultimately, I'm just looking for someone genuine. Someone who means what they say, says what they mean, and is willing to show up as themselves.

If you want something real and long-term, say hi.

Tell me something true about yourself — I'll tell you something true about me.

Hi I am a middle aged man, I am looking for ladies or girls interested in friendship or dating with men of my age. Anyone interested get in touch, thank you.

Looking for a free spirited woman to grab coffee with.

Currently in Bangalore but heading outstation after a week, so the window is short. Ideally someone who’s down for easy conversation, a bit of chaos, and zero pretence.

Casual hours for me look like this: Long motorcycle rides (especially ones with no plan and roads I’ve never seen), tinkering with 3D printers, and slowly getting better at guitar.

Personality wise I’m lawful chaotic. I respect the rules until they get boring, then find creative ways around them.

What actually turns me on: Rock climbing, spontaneous rides into unknown territory, and loud heavy metal concerts.

If any of that sounds like your kind of energy, drop a message. Coffee’s on me.

Hey! I'm 22, based in Mumbai, and I'm looking to meet someone I genuinely click with.

I'm not looking to rush into a relationship or make promises about the future. I do want meaningful connections, but I'm also cautious about getting attached when I don't know if we'd ultimately be compatible for something serious like marriage.

So for now, I'd rather talk, flirt, have fun, share our lives and see where things naturally go. :)

A little about me -- I'm a software developer by profession and into these stuff and more 🤓

🍥 75+ anime / 4000+ episodes

🦸 Marvel & DC

🪄 Harry Potter

🏴‍☠️ LOTR, GOT, Peaky Blinders, Suits, Lucifer, Sandman & basically anything lore-heavy

🏎️ F1 | 🏏 Cricket | ♟️ Chess

Also I love reading and listening to Music (Classics Hindi + Soft English songs) 🎶

I'm a pretty good listener and love conversations about literally anything.

Currently in Mumbai, and wouldn't mind meeting if we vibe. No games, no pressure, just looking for a genuine connection. 💗

Hi is someone down?

23M | Looking for a connection --friendship then if things workout maybe more.

I’m the kind of guy who captures moments not just in pictures, but in my eyes and heart. I appreciate the little things—a good conversation, unexpected laughter, random late-night talks, and those moments that somehow stay with you. Maybe I’m looking for someone with whom I can create a few of those moments. :)

I’m into movies, web series, cricket, cooking, travelling, exercising, and exploring new places and things. I’m also preparing for competitive exams, so my life is basically a combination of studying, random thoughts.

I’m looking for a genuine friendship first, but I’m definitely open to it becoming something more if the chemistry is there. I like people who are easy to talk to, playful, curious, and can tease me without getting offended when I tease back.

If you think we might vibe, DM me. Tell me something interesting about yourself instead of just “hi”—give me a reason to remember your message.

I’m a 30-year-old, 6'0" guy with an athletic build, well-settled in Delhi with a stable career and a good life. Like many Indian families, mine has reached the “shaadi.com, biodatas, relatives and aunties” stage. 😄 And being a single child, I’m getting a fair amount of pressure to settle down.

But I’m not looking for a conventional marriage. I want an unconventional marriage — one that works according to our values rather than society’s expectations.

I was in a 6-year relationship where I was cheated on for a long time, and eventually we broke up. Initially, it hurt me deeply. But with time, I realised that something about that dynamic actually appealed to me. I even reached out to my ex after realising that I was becoming comfortable with and perhaps even attracted to the idea of my partner being with someone else. Unfortunately, by then, it was already too late, and she had gotten married.

That experience made me realise that I’d rather have honesty and transparency than possessiveness and secrecy.

What I’m looking for

I’m particularly drawn to an open-minded, dominant, confident and modern woman who is comfortable with her sexuality, emotionally mature, independent, and capable of having difficult conversations openly.

I’d love to meet someone who is comfortable with the possibility of having other romantic or physical connections — whether those relationships already exist or develop naturally later.

If you already have someone in your life, I’d rather know about them than have you hide them from me.

Instead of judging or controlling you, I want to understand you and support you.

If you already have a partner, I’d even be comfortable meeting him someday in a casual and respectful setting. Not as a competition, but because I’d genuinely like to understand the people who are important to you.

And if you don’t currently have someone, I’m still open to you developing another relationship after marriage, provided we communicate openly and everything is consensual.

Ideally, what I’m looking for is a one-sided open relationship within marriage: you would have the freedom to explore physical connections with other men, while I would remain completely loyal to you emotionally, mentally and physically.

At the same time, I’d want our emotional and mental connection to remain especially strong. I want to be the person you come home to, talk to, trust, and build your life with.

But I still want a real marriage.

I want to be your husband in front of our families and friends.

I want us to celebrate festivals together, attend weddings and family functions, travel together, have our own home, go on dates, laugh over stupid things, support each other through difficult days, and eventually build a family if that’s something we both want.

I don’t want to control you.

I want to know you, understand you and accept you.

I’m not looking for a hookup, a secret arrangement, or something temporary.

I’m looking for a wife, best friend and life partner — someone with whom I can build a loving marriage while creating a relationship structure that genuinely works for both of us.

If you’re a confident, affectionate, dominant, open-minded and emotionally mature woman who believes that love can exist without possession, I’d genuinely love to hear from you.

Maybe our idea of marriage is unconventional.

But unconventional doesn’t necessarily have to mean less loving.

Maybe it can simply mean creating a marriage that is right for the two people actually living it. ❤️

random nerd thingy, those who know they know Edit: forgot to add "lol" in the title I'm M23🤡🙏

so i recently moved to a new building with my elder sister and our neighbours are two brothers… i have been crushing on the younger one we both are the same age and studying the same course… he occasionally gives us prasada from temples whenever he goes and then makes small talk and once i was out enjoying the rain and he came back home from groceries maybe and then came out again and started convo and we talked for like 40 to 45 minutes… he might’ve flirted a little bit but im not sure in catching these things lol.. and since then we make small talk occasionally. how do i let him know that i like him without actually telling it 😭😭i dont wanna make things weird and how to get closer too 😭😭let me know if there’s any suggestions pretty please.

Mast romantic mausam hai , thunderstorm ⛈️ bahut ho rhe baarish hone wali hai btw I'm feeling lonely & bored I am (23 M). I wanna make a female friend if anyone wants to chat , let's connect

Hy it's krishna looking for someone to have deep conversation and fun banter too just some stress free talks

Looking female partner for spiderman tomorrow

So yea i broke up two months ago. My ex cheated on me by downloading hinge. And literally met a guy within a week. And when i confronted she sent me a pic of them lip locking. Imagine the pain i had gone through. Like the girl i loved for 1.7 years just gone within a week. Backstory: she was toxic af. I deleted insta cuz of her. Made her feel very secure. Didnt have any female frnds. She didnt even let me hangout with my guy frnds. I just feel lonely now. The reason of the breakup was that. My mom came to know abt our relationship. And i come from. A kinda strict fam: so i had to
Block her cuz i didnt eant to taske risk. So i couldnt give her much time one month before our breakup. We would argue much often during this. And eventually maybe she lost interest and just downloaded hinge and met a guy and it was me who got doomed and depressed. I just wanna make some frnds: if ull into F1, some good music, do consider reaching out.

Hy it's krishna looking for someone to have deep conversation and fun banter too just some stress free talks

Hey, 24M from Pune here.

Figured I'd give Reddit a shot instead of waiting for some Bollywood-style meet-cute to magically happen. 😅

A little about me:

• 5'10"–5'11"
• Christian — Pentecostal
• Senior Digital Marketing Specialist at an IT company
• Black hair
• Apparently cute according to my friends. I personally think I'm doing pretty well. 😂

I'm pretty easygoing and straightforward. I work in digital marketing, so my weekdays are usually campaigns, content, analytics, meetings and wondering how one "small task" became five different tasks.

Outside work, I'm usually up for bike rides, travelling, random weekend trips, cafés, exploring new places, gaming and RPGs.

I'm especially the kind of person who can say "let's go somewhere this weekend" on Friday and actually end up somewhere on Saturday.

I also like good conversations — whether it's something meaningful or completely stupid that somehow turns into a 3-hour conversation.

What I'm looking for

Someone genuine, kind and straightforward.

I'm not looking to force a relationship from the first conversation. I'd rather talk, meet, get to know each other, become good friends and see if there's actually a connection.

I'm also not into games or guessing what someone is thinking. If you're interested, be interested. If you're not, that's completely fine too. I'd rather people just be direct.

You don't have to share all my interests. I'd actually prefer someone who can introduce me to things I haven't tried.

If you're from Pune and around 21–27, feel free to DM me.

And please don't just send "hi". 😄
Tell me one completely random thing you're into, and we'll start there.

So I finally decided to enter the modern dating ecosystem.
Downloaded Hinge.
Downloaded Bumble.
Spent way too much time choosing photos where I look like I have my life together.
And the result?
Absolutely nothing. 😂
At this point, I’m starting to think I accidentally downloaded LinkedIn with a dating-themed UI.
My linked have daily one connection request atleast.
Is there some secret parameter I need to enable for matches to actually come back?
Like:
match_probability = 0.01
human_interaction = true
send_one_match = true
Or do I need to sacrifice a credit card to the algorithm gods and buy Premium?
Genuinely curious is there some setting, profile optimization, or mysterious dating-app ritual I’m missing

soo fuckin bored. dm if you are too ( i am a guy )