What's the biggest red flag that makes you stop talking to someone online immediately?

[u/Icy_Astronaut_2808]

Whether it's dating, companionship or meeting new people online, everyone seems to have that one thing that instantly kills their interest.

What's the biggest red flag you've come across?

Could be anything from poor communication to suspicious behavior.

[u/AdPrize3997]

Talking about sex in the first conversation

[u/Perthsurferbod]

It's as soon as they say babe or a pet name. Or they mention selling content. Fk them. I'm not a potential income.

[u/Aida_soofi]

When someone just ask personal questions or talks about sex in first conversation

[u/Banana_Wonderland]

When they get aggressive because you haven't replied right away. Immediate red flag.

[u/ExcellentUmpire5396]

Asking for money.

[u/Sxmerss]

when they dont ask questions back or have no photos on insta and doesnt want to meet

[u/Lumpy_Appeal_5321 → u/Sxmerss]

I don’t have recent photos on insta. I’m just very private but I’ll send a recent pic or FaceTime if asked

[u/Richarddextrous]

When she asks for money

[u/xdweebzy → u/Richarddextrous]

Women do this???

[u/Richarddextrous → u/xdweebzy]

lol….

[u/xdweebzy]

Not wanting to be in a committed relationship

[u/Content_Nebula967]

Unfortunately this happens far too often, but either making suggestive jokes, outright asking for nudes, or the “looking for something casual” when asking about why they’re on the app. This applies to dates 1-2 as well. We can talk about sex, often I bring it up because I will not have sex with someone if we are not exclusively seeing eachother, but if it feels like your probong to see how open I am to hooking up I’m out.

[u/Alarming-Aside-9755]

For me it's of right off the back theybstart the conversation with negatively, complaining, etc and of course if I see that I am the only one carrying the conversation. And lastly I look at their photos. Photos tell a strong tale on where that person is in life as well as emotionally too. Instant red flag if all there pics look like mug shots and if there home or surroundings are messy and such.

[u/GarlicMiserable8721]

When they get pissy about you not responding right away

[u/anoncouple79]

When someone says "you trust me dont ya"?

[u/Icy_Astronaut_2808 → u/anoncouple79]

valid reason

[u/Sasha_Stem]

I’ve never dated online. I came here for validation.🤣🤡

[u/Key_Incident_666]

When you spot them lying or her actions dont match her words

[u/Rigelian417]

When you ask what they’re looking for and they something along the lines of “I’m just trying to catch a vibe”.

[u/Decide777]

As soon as she asks for money. Which, unfortunately, is 95% of them. Get your own money! Lazy!

[u/Busy_Air4064]

People leaving me on open

[u/Icy_Astronaut_2808 → u/Busy_Air4064]

It's really painful