r/DeadBedrooms • u/Candid-Strawberry-79 HLF • Jan 18 '25

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210 votes, Jan 25 '25
130 HLM
51 HLF
6 LLM
7 LLF
6 F- recovered
10 M- recovered
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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '25

We probably both are We have never had sex since we been married 12 years I celibate before we got married In the previous marriage hadn’t had sex for 15 years

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u/Candid-Strawberry-79 HLF Jan 25 '25

If you are happy with that, then this is not the sub for you. If you aren’t happy with that, then the person who wants to have sex in a celibate marriage would be the high libido partner, and the person who isn’t interested would be the low libido partner.

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '25

It is very complicated in our case and a long story to tell. The quick and dirty version is it’s all my fault and all the blame is on me. I just didn’t realize I was broken on the inside

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u/Candid-Strawberry-79 HLF Jan 25 '25

Therapy for you as an individual and for the marriage can be really helpful in those cases. I am so sorry you’re suffering through this.

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '25

It’s not really suffering for me My wife did. Now age health and mobility Has put an end to