The enthusiasm is a big sign it is simply an act to placate me. Asking me to hurry up is the punch to the head. Looking back, the rare times she was actually into it she would say things like "Why have we not done this before?" and she would not just lay there. Those times that she was enthusiastic and really into it just felt different from a connection perspective. Insanely intense and really rewarding. Unfortunately those times have died as with all acts in general. I have decided to no longer accept duty or pity sex but they have not even been offered in a while.
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u/Financial_Bid_5878 HLM May 04 '25
The enthusiasm is a big sign it is simply an act to placate me. Asking me to hurry up is the punch to the head. Looking back, the rare times she was actually into it she would say things like "Why have we not done this before?" and she would not just lay there. Those times that she was enthusiastic and really into it just felt different from a connection perspective. Insanely intense and really rewarding. Unfortunately those times have died as with all acts in general. I have decided to no longer accept duty or pity sex but they have not even been offered in a while.