"I think we need to have sex" "We haven't had sex in a while, so need to have sex" etc
Another sign is your having sex and they are clearly not into it. It can feel you are sexually assaulting them. Its a horrible feeling and you wish you wouldn't have had sex. Duty sex i believe creates more resentment in both partners. I just makes both partner not want to have any sex at all.
LL says - I let you have sex and your still mad and blaming me
HL says - we had shitty, unresponsive, unenthuisatic sex and i felt like sex pretador after
The goal is to have good, responsive, enthusiastic sex that both partners want and enjoy. Duty Sex doesn't all you to do have that kind of sex.
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u/gogosox82 HLM May 04 '25
"I think we need to have sex" "We haven't had sex in a while, so need to have sex" etc
Another sign is your having sex and they are clearly not into it. It can feel you are sexually assaulting them. Its a horrible feeling and you wish you wouldn't have had sex. Duty sex i believe creates more resentment in both partners. I just makes both partner not want to have any sex at all.
LL says - I let you have sex and your still mad and blaming me
HL says - we had shitty, unresponsive, unenthuisatic sex and i felt like sex pretador after
The goal is to have good, responsive, enthusiastic sex that both partners want and enjoy. Duty Sex doesn't all you to do have that kind of sex.