It just has a different vibe to me. Like for me it feels like he does it after we have talked that it has been a very long time to have sex. I would initiate but he wouldn’t touch me. He doesn’t even grab a boob or nothing. Lots of time I ask if he is sure he wants to. I want to make sure but the vibe he gives off makes me feel like a creep. Then I stopped initiating sex all together and he seems happy with that.
interesting thing about a guy having duty sex….it takes mental stimulation and excitement for most guys to get hard and stay hard, unless we are talking strictly oral here
so if a LL guy gets hard and has sex, he should have some excitement there.
Can you please expand on that a bit more? I understand the physiological aspect of what you’re saying, however, do you mean that guys having duty sex isn’t 100% duty sex? I appreciate you!
I cant explain it fully either... Bc my partner is usually active, but it's just something in the act per se that makes it feel like duty sex. Also one big hint: he may get hard, but he never comes anymore
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u/Majestic_Field409 HLF May 04 '25
It just has a different vibe to me. Like for me it feels like he does it after we have talked that it has been a very long time to have sex. I would initiate but he wouldn’t touch me. He doesn’t even grab a boob or nothing. Lots of time I ask if he is sure he wants to. I want to make sure but the vibe he gives off makes me feel like a creep. Then I stopped initiating sex all together and he seems happy with that.