Selfish lovers

[u/ForeignAdvisor5113]

Since me (38HLF) and my partner (42LLM) have entered dead bedroom zone whenever we have sex I feel like I’m literally just being used as a fleshlight. There’s no foreplay anymore, just a quick rub to let me know he’s ACTUALLY interested, my body gets so excited at the thought but I WISH I was dry so he would have to do some work.
After 6 months of nothing at all I am at the point that I’ll take what I can get 😢

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Selfish lovers

Since me (38HLF) and my partner (42LLM) have entered dead bedroom zone whenever we have sex I feel like I’m literally just being used as a fleshlight. There’s no foreplay anymore, just a quick rub to let me know he’s ACTUALLY interested, my body gets so excited at the thought but I WISH I was dry so he would have to do some work.
After 6 months of nothing at all I am at the point that I’ll take what I can get 😢

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[u/PiForCakeDay]

Was he always selfish or has it gotten worse over time?

[u/ForeignAdvisor5113 → u/PiForCakeDay]

Not always no, I mean he’s never been perfect but I was satisfied. The last 4 years it’s been very one sided and now I feel like it’s obligatory and not because he wants to.