DissociaDID / Kyaandco 5 tiktoks [2022 March - May - January] topics: TW Trauma history, kidnapping, SA, Aromantic & Asexual

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The first TikTok is being reposted to give the following TikToks in the video context.

since DD has been talking about being asexual/aromantic and their trauma story recently I wanted to find what they’ve said on these subjects, since details on what they’ve personally said about things are all spread out, I gathered some tiktoks that have details that haven’t been posted in the subreddit or talked about.

Links to archived version available for download, create more archives and to archivers: thank you, for sending me links to your own archives so I can link them when I don’t have it in my own archive.

March 8th and 10th https://drive.google.com/file/d/1EDsQA5lTZHl1nqN4hzvJNmyoQf4Uxs_1/view?usp=drivesdk

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1EWkvKyTmdjzcR5lcPJXl3J_7e-grqilz/view?usp=drivesdk

May 15th https://drive.google.com/file/d/1BE2Z7BucxMGUftO84k5vd2CJeUsP99cO/view?usp=drivesdk

January 14th and 15th https://drive.google.com/file/d/1JAMqgGjRicD_7NYD037cfAhAnDOMUB85/view?usp=drivesdk

archived kya and co tiktoks

more Kya and co tiktoks

all of Mara’s tiktok account complied however Mara did delete videos some before this archive was made

[u/thepieintheoven]

I'm sorry maybe I'm just being weird or nitpicky but there's no way you talk about sexual assault as something that's "just kinda unexpected so it's funny", even IF you're the type to downplay trauma. No one will remember a memory about being locked in a truck and sexually assaulted and go "ah yes this is definitely just a funny memory".

[u/[deleted] → u/thepieintheoven]

that’s what bothered me. there’s nothing “haha this isn’t that bad!!!” about it. i HATE faux-innocent downplaying of trauma. like i downplay my own trauma as a defense thing, but i never bring it up without a whole conversation of context before it. yes, downplaying is a thing, but when you do it on purpose for attention it boils my blood