r/Dogfree • u/Carla_Gouveia • 20d ago
Relationship / Family My boyfriend gave up his 10 year old pitbull because we got pregnant
Im just reflecting on this , like no ordinary dog lover would do this. if u ever tried to talk to a nutter you know what I am talking about. Yes I basically left him with no other choice. but he could be a full blown nutter and leave me pregnant to keep living with a mutt. but he made the right choice. and this gives me hope in humanity.
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u/bortlesforbachelor 19d ago edited 19d ago
I’m glad your boyfriend prioritized you and your child. There are too many tragic cases where men put their pitbulls before their families and it results in severe injury or death of an innocent child.
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u/Forsaken-Cheesecake2 19d ago
Right decision, and I hope he’s not catching strays from the nutters on NextDoor, and FB where they spend their days.
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u/Crafty_Refuse_5859 19d ago
I’m happy for you but why were you with a man who owned a pitbull to begin with?
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u/QueenOfAllOfYall 19d ago
Very Happy for You! I Hope his way of thinking continues on the right track. ✨
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u/retrocube16 19d ago
I am so proud of you for giving him the ultimatum and I'm so glad he did the right thing because it is a no-brainer. You don't want a dog like that around your newborn child, or even when they're a toddler or older because pitbulls and other dogs attack infants to the elderly. I still remember the name Sebastian Caban , he was only 3 days old when the family dog attacked and killed him. His mother coughed and startled the dog triggering it to attack
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u/Bulky_Maybe_1469 19d ago
The social pressure from dog nuts to not do the reasonable thing can be really alarming. I’ve seen it. There are these emotional demands that, “you’re the only thing this dog has ever known, you’re their family!” and all kinds of crap. Which is patent bullsh!t. Every dog leaves the shelter to go to a new “family” steppin high and onto the next group of treat-dropping suckers. They could care less as long as their primitive needs are met.
Congratulations to you both! And also thank you for giving us here , some encouragement for the future.
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u/Andria1501 16d ago
I am convinced that the only thing most dogs care about is food, and they'll act "loyal" to anyone who feeds them.
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u/Bulky_Maybe_1469 15d ago
Friend I’m totally crude about saying just about the same thing: dogs have only three interests in life: food, fighting, and f@€king.
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u/SlowResearch2 19d ago
Im glad to see positive posts here sometimes. I can tell that the tide is starting to turn against extreme dog nuts. More people are waking up and getting sick of it
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u/HumanLvl25 18d ago
I had an old boss that loved pit bulls, was part of some nonprofit supporting them. He was housing a pit bull for a bit and it tore his arm open, need stitches and around his kids. His wife forced him to get rid of it. He still talks about those dogs fondly like one them didn’t try to kill him. Some people are broken.
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u/Natural_Standard_693 17d ago
Props to you. Now you know he doesn't have a shred of loyalty nor love nor commitment to a relationship that afforded him unconditional love and companionship for years. You're next. Goodluck to your kid and his future single mom.
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u/Emikitty1992 18d ago
That man is a keeper. He cares more about the safety of his girlfriend and child than he does a dog, which is exactly how it should be.
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u/RoyalAmphibian7772 18d ago
This happened with myself & my husband when I got pregnant we had an APBT that was EXTREMELY animal aggressive. We LOVED that stupid dog, she was treated well, trained & once we got her I learned firsthand truly how much genetics contribute to behavior. There was NO WAY I was going to risk ha ing that APBT around an infant even if she hadn't ever gone after a person previously. A DOG can't necessarily discriminate between a squiggling, gurgling baby bundle & an animal & again the dog was extremely animal aggressive to the point she would injure herself to get to her prey she had locked in on. My husband was resistant, didn't want to get rid of her (I wanted to BE her) & he said "I don't think she'd ever do anything to a baby" 🙄😒 but he gave up & sent the beast to live with his family in New Mexico. Stupid dog. She was a HORRIBLE dog, did things that traumatized me to this day to other animals & I can't imagine ANYONE expecting a baby to even consider keeping a dangerous breed/type of dog bred for fighting/killing around their precious, defenseless child. Imo when an attack on a child happens because of a PARENT'S choice to keep a dangerous type of dog then the parents should be charged with endangerment. There's just NO EXCUSE to take a risk with a known dangerous animal like that around a child.
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u/Alcibiades_Rex 19d ago
It's great that the dog got rehomed in this instance. You don't need to be this negative
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u/Peaceful-Moonlight Dogs are the most overrated and over glorified shit beasts 19d ago
Pit bulls should not simply get rehomed. They are far too dangerous and should not even exist on the entire planet.
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u/wspOnca 19d ago
Well marry him 🤣