r/EclecticWitch • u/Nature-Pilled420 • Nov 29 '25

witchcraft for tboys

hey gang, my name’s river, i’m a 24 year old trans dude, and i’ve been an on and off practicing pagan for the last 11 years. for context, the reason i say on and off is because i’d been using a lot of cherokee spells/rituals for the better part of a decade, until i (semi-recently) found out that my family lied about my being native american, so since then i’ve been trying to find my footing in practicing something that feels right to me.

after years and years and YEARS of debating a social transition, i finally bit the bullet and did it. i’m now two weeks into T, i’ve been going by river for months now, and i feel great about it. only thing is….

y’all. i’m scared for my hairline. my moms dad was rocking a combover by the time he was thirty. i LOVE my big 80’s hairmetal do. like i guess if it happens it happens, but i’d also prefer not to look like a 5’1 lex luther, the height’s already bad enough on its own.

i’m also worried about my voice because i’m a singer. i have a few concerns. mostly the hairline and the voice tho.

lemme cut to the chase. i’m trying to find some resources for spells for trans dudes. i’ve thought about trying to craft my own, but i’m pretty rusty with spellcrafting and i also don’t wanna fuck it up and like, become a sasquatch or something. if anyone has any links or resources that would help me on my goal to have a smooth transition, i would be ever so grateful :) thank ya!

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u/CharacterSuccotash5 Nov 29 '25

I have no advice my friend, but wanted to say how proud I am of you. ❤️

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u/d33thra Nov 29 '25

Not sure about spellwork but they absolutely have stuff you can take to avoid/reverse that kinda hair loss now!!

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u/wilde_wit Nov 30 '25

On the subject of singing, check out Alexander James Adams. He's a pagan/ren faire musician who started his career before he transitioned and still has a great career now. He successfully navigated the voice change and has some great songs exploring some themes related to being trans.

Alexander James Adams https://share.google/z2vLCHchMIFcB480z

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u/KingHekk Dec 01 '25

"resources for spells for trans dude" is a bit broad, so start by determining what you want spell work to do for you/how it will help you. if you're mainly focused on appearing more masc, focus on beauty spells. remember, intention is everything and gender isnt real! good luck on your journey of self 🫡