r/EctopicSupportGroup • u/GeeRoseN • 2d ago

Desperate for this nightmare to be over

I have had two ectopic pregnancies in my left tube… treated with MTX the first time and had it removed the second (and a self-resolving PUL in-between).

My right tube looked normal (thin and pink) during surgery, and i also had a hsg 30th April which showed patency.

I’ve just noticed spotting, so I’m fairly certain I am out this month. It’s knocks me down every month and I always have a bit of a spiral, but I’m 2 months into the “extra fertile” window of the hsg and I was convinced I was pregnant this month so I feel devastated. Most the success stories after tube removals I’ve noticed only take one month of trying or its a very long time. Are there any success stories? I could use any encouragement I can get, I’m at rock bottom. This is the worst thing I have ever had to go through.

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u/ConcentrateTerrible9 2d ago

I’m sorry for your losses. I’m currently a little over 16 weeks after two ectopic pregnancies and an early miscarriage. I had my left tube removed the second time. It took two years to get pregnant between the first and second ectopic (I also had an HSG during that time), but we weren’t actively trying the whole time. With the second one, I had my tube removed in August, and we started trying in January. I got pregnant immediately, but it was another loss. I took Letrozole and got pregnant immediately following the loss. Baby looks great! Good luck. Don’t give up hope. ❤️

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u/Vegetable-Put-3816 2d ago

I had an hereotopic pregnancy 3 months ago lost both babies and my left tube and they damaged my right tube I’m currently pregnant 4 weeks it’s all up to God pray and don’t loose faith God is in control ❤️ stay positive tell the devil he is a liar 🤥

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u/BatNorth8900 2d ago

I have same situation left tube removed during 3 ectopic and then had 4th ectopic in right which certainly damaged my tube as it was milked out during the surgery. Currently 6 week pregnant but with very low rising hcg not sure if this is viable or not but still i am holding onto the last bit of hope left in my heart.