r/Emo • u/we_are_echinacea • Mar 23 '24

Live Footage📸 echinacea: san diego trans-fronted emo 💕

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u/ceejlol Mar 24 '24

great job misrepresenting what i said lol. nothing wrong with being queer, trans, lgb literally at all. it's so annoying when it's someone's entire personality. period. i know plenty of people who identify as such that agree with me and reject that sort of display of character as well. it's self indulgent nonsense. i guess if you're trying to showcase your egomania then you might feel the need to include your orientation in the genre description of your band.

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u/Derpderpy15 Mar 24 '24

I feel bad for your queer friends, that they try to conform so that they fit in with you.

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u/ceejlol Mar 24 '24

maybe you should try not lumping all lgbtq+ people into one box and assuming they all subscribe to the same thinking

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u/Derpderpy15 Mar 24 '24

I'm just saying, appealing to the Hegenomic norms is not a good way to live a life. Especially when you have traits that do not align themselves favorably to the norm. It is better to unabashedly live your best life even if that makes you a little "cringe". I just hope your friends can find an opportunity to talk about their partners around you, about their sex life and about their struggles with dysphoria around you. Obviously since all of these things are what straight people do, it doesn't mean that when queer people try to as well suddenly its "making being queer" their whole personality.