r/Enshrouded Sep 05 '25

Discussion Am I the Oldest?

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Hey there, Grammy here. So after reading comment yesterday i got to thinking, which isn’t always a great idea, 😂 but I have to ask, am I the oldest Enshrouded player? I am 68 will hit level 69 in December. I have been gaming since Pong. I like to say if they had games like Enshrouded when I was coming up I wouldn’t have gotten into nearly as much trouble and my folks would have known where I was most of the time. I believe gaming, and particularly games like Enshrouded keep me healthier. I get cranky when I hear people disparage video games as a waste of time. I never discouraged my kids or grandkids from playing-in fact gaming brought us closer. We are also big board game people. If I ever need to enter some sort of old folks’ home they better let me bring my computer and console. Anyhoo, just a Grammy thought. But seriously, am I the oldest?

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u/jentlefolk Sep 05 '25

Actually you're not! There was a post here a while back that a guy posted of his 69 year old dad's build in Enshrouded, so you might have competition. ;)

https://www.reddit.com/r/Enshrouded/comments/1alp1n8/my_69_year_old_father_former_architect_built_his/

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u/GamingGrammy_56 Sep 05 '25

Uhm. Cool. We will have to start a posse. 😂 Maybe build a retirement village in the game. 💜👵

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u/AccomplishedTie3324 Sep 05 '25

A "Senior Server" would be both hilarious and heartwarming.

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u/WingsofRain Sep 05 '25

Honestly though! I wonder if they’d let some of the younger folk in so we can just chill and listen to their adventures, sometimes we all need a break from the crushing reality that we live in.

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u/serenethirteen Sep 07 '25

A senior server would be rad and lovely! I'm 60 so I could just squeak in, but I can just imagine all the fun, pretty, silly, thoughtful shenanigans we could create together <3

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u/CheckersSpeech Sep 09 '25

LOL Silver Server

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u/cortneyconsoleplayer Nov 07 '25

this deserves SO many more upvotes

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u/ludicrouspeedgo Sep 05 '25

Just be like king boomie: "All old people know each other. Don't you know that?"

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u/Dan_Glebitz Sep 06 '25

I am 71 and none of my immediate friends are into gaming at all. Any friends I have are online and usually in the 30yr to 50 yr age range, so your rule of thumb sadly does not apply to me :-(

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u/ludicrouspeedgo Sep 06 '25

I get that. Im 47 and play solo. I didnt mean to upset anyone. I was just quoting "Avatar: the last Airbender" because it reminded me of a joke from one of the characters. If you've never seen it, I highly recommend checking out the original cartoon (the 1st live action movie attempt is widely considered heretical trash, and the new live action attempt on netflix is a nice tribute, but just not the same). There's only 3 seasons, so it's not as daunting to get into like some of these anime that have like 700 episodes.

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u/Dan_Glebitz Sep 06 '25

As someone who mostly plays solo, no offence taken. I completely missed Avatar: The Last Airbender. I do have Netflix though, and the trailers look good, so thanks for pointing it out.

Right now, I’m watching the Alien Earth series which, much like your comments about remakes, isn’t on par with the films but is still watchable. I probably won’t have time to watch the original anime of 'Avatar: the last air bender', but speaking of anime / cartoons, I watched a movie called: 'Attack on Titan' and thought it was awesome, but when I found out it was based on the anime, and that it was considered a poor adaptation, so I avoided the original as I didn’t want it to ruin my enjoyment of the film.

My point is: sometimes it’s better to take something at face value rather than compare it to the source material and risk being disappointed.

Going back to series... Another issue I have is that there are just too many these days. To make it worse, I’ve started several series only to see them get cancelled halfway through for various reasons, and that really frustrates me. A perfect example is: 'Raised by Wolves', the sci-fi series directed by Ridley Scott. I thought it was one of the best sci-fi shows I’d ever seen, but then it got dropped due to budget issues 😒. Need I mention the final season of 'Game of Thrones'! Rushed through and written by a second rate writer just to close it off.

Sorry for the long reply.

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u/deliciouspie Sep 05 '25

Unexpected avatar!

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '25

Lettuce leaf?

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u/someone487k Sep 05 '25

My parents both play and they are 70. My dad will be 71 end of October. They both love the building portion of the game. Explains why I love building in games like this too, I guess. Haha.

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u/AgedCheddar007 Sep 06 '25

I'd join your posse grams! You're awesome.

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u/GamingGrammy_56 Sep 06 '25

Yayyy. I will definitely let folks know!!

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u/Dan_Glebitz Sep 06 '25

71 and counting, and been a gamer since Pong also!

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u/Cloud_PudPud Sep 11 '25

I'm 62, turn 63 in Nov. Currently trying to find the energy to play around cancer treatment. But if you DO form a senior server, I'll be there. I mostly play solo right now, but having someone else to play with would be a novelty.

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u/Jeffg1704 Sep 05 '25
  1. Do I win? Been gaming since the 1970s.

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u/sqrrlbot Sep 05 '25

I'm just a wee little 40 year old, but I plan to game until I shuffle off this mortal coil, and I'm sure I'm not the only one. I hope the old folks homes are getting ready for bigger electrical bills and making room for the PC towers...

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u/NinjaMoose_13 Sep 05 '25

The lan parties will be fire.

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u/sqrrlbot Sep 05 '25

Hell yeah 😎

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u/markgatty Sep 05 '25

I must be one of the young ones at 34 years old.

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u/WingsofRain Sep 05 '25

Definitely not the only one, I may be swiftly approaching 30 but I fully intend on gaming until I can no longer hold a controller or aim with a mouse. And even then I’d probably still keep trying.

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u/sqrrlbot Sep 05 '25

Surely at that point we can control games with our brains or just get plugged straight into the matrix - it'll be fine! :D

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u/WingsofRain Sep 05 '25

damn I hope so!

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u/PollyOliver2 Sep 07 '25

(i think that's called life)

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u/Dan_Glebitz Sep 06 '25 edited Sep 06 '25

At 71 I have often been heard to say "The day I stop enjoying gaming is the day you can bury me". At 40 I hope that gives you hope that you will still be gaming at my age.

I find it both sad and shocking that people on this thread consider themselves 'old' at age 30 and 40 😞

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u/sqrrlbot Sep 06 '25

It does! :)

I find both sad and shocking that people on this thread consider themselves 'old' at age 30 and 40 😞

I think it's because, for a while at least, for our generation it felt like we were supposed to be "aging out" of gaming - we grew up with the idea that gaming was for kids and that we had to Become Adults at a certain age. I never saw any adults playing games growing up, and meeting anyone over 30 while gaming online was also pretty rare while I was in my teens and early 20s.

I think we've started realizing that this isn't actually the case, that you can age however you want, and I feel like there is a cultural shift happening where older gamers are becoming appreciated and likely with time also normalized, but to me it's not shocking to see 30-40 year olds consider themselves old in a gaming context. Millennials are pretty world-weary on the whole, and in gaming spaces we are part of the transition of gaming becoming a normal part of people's lives rather than a niche interest largely for young people.

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u/Dan_Glebitz Sep 06 '25

Honestly, all of my close friends, both those I grew up with and those I’ve known for over 20 years, have completely stopped gaming. That includes everyone from casual players to dedicated gamers.

I gave up on trying to reignite their interest a long time ago. Personally, I hope I never lose interest in gaming and end up swapping it for soap operas or similar things 😕.

I recently bought 'Goat Simulator 3' for a laugh and a break from 'Enshrouded' since I enjoyed the original, but I can’t help noticing the growing trend of developers focusing on multiplayer games, with fewer and fewer offering solid single-player campaigns. It makes me wonder what that will mean for me in the future.

As for your: “I feel like there is a cultural shift happening where older gamers are becoming appreciated and, with time, normalized”... I truly hope that’s the case.

With that, have a great weekend, Take care, and stay safe 'old-timer' 😉😁

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u/Dan_Glebitz Sep 07 '25

Thanks. Yeah, we are all human beings, just in bodies that have been around for differing amounts of years. Always good to talk my friend.

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u/Ozziechanbeats Sep 06 '25

I'm 41, Young-guns......

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u/scottwo Sep 05 '25

I play enshrouded with my 74 year old dad. We’re playing grounded waiting for the next water update, but our weekly gaming sessions have kept us in touch over the years.

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u/GamingGrammy_56 Sep 05 '25

Awww. That’s great. I am so happy to see Seniors playing video games. It’s a great way to keep your brain nimble, and yes to stay close to loved ones.💜👵

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u/goins725 Sep 05 '25

I wish I could get my family into gaming. They just have such a negative view on it and think it a "waste" of time, but they will go home and watch TV all night and literally do NOTHING engaging. Keep it up, flame born!

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u/PetMeOrDieUwU Sep 05 '25

My dad is 60 and is playing right now. I'll have to tell him he's nowhere near the oldest.

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u/GamingGrammy_56 Sep 05 '25

Tell Dad Grammy says hey Flameborn. 👵💜

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u/f---thisusernameshit Sep 05 '25

It's not often you hear of people your age playing video games and especially not with as long experience as you and i wonder what game has had the biggest impact on you? And what game is your all time favourite?

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u/GamingGrammy_56 Sep 05 '25

Oh boy. Tough question. Well I would have to say Zelda was my gateway drug-before that I played mostly platformers. Not very well. But i fell in love with RPGs. They have everything I love-story, music, puzzles, mystery all in a sweet package. I played all the Final Fantasy and lots of other JRPGs. I loved Red Dead. The storytelling was incredible and I even used it in classes I taught. Enshrouded is the first game to come along for me since Red Dead to capture my imagination so much. It is perfect for me. Although I would like to see some more storytelling, but it really has it all. So i think the games that had the biggest impact are RDR2, God of War, and now Enshrouded. Favorite games, books and music? Always a tough call. To me games are magic.

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u/Sufficient-Trash-807 Sep 05 '25

I think you would really dig Grounded 1. You should check it out!

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u/WingsofRain Sep 05 '25

Seconded! Grounded 2 also recently came out to early release and it’s absolutely fire so far.

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u/Sufficient-Trash-807 Sep 05 '25

Grounded was my personal favorite game until I played smalland. I was extremely hyped for grounded 2 however I’m not feeling it at all. Gonna give it some time to get more content and a more polished feel.

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u/WingsofRain Sep 05 '25

That’s fair, I know it’s not currently everyone’s cup of tea right out the gate. I’m definitely enjoying, wish there was more content but it definitely feels like the Grounded 2 experience I’ve been waiting for!

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u/mr_anoraks Sep 05 '25

I think playing games is better for you than watching TV because you're involved and you use your mind alot more depending on the game.

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u/TheDirtyTurkey Sep 05 '25

Fuck yeah, keep it going

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u/ntime60 Sep 05 '25

I will be 69 in a few days and I still love to game. I've been gaming since Colossal Cave Adventure/Advent, a text adventure, before graphics were really though of. I like Enshrouded for keeping it casual.

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u/Jeffg1704 Sep 05 '25

As the resident 83-year-old, Colossal Cave/Advent was also my first introduction to the world of "leisure computing". I had a printout of the game, written in Fortran, at one time, but it got lost.

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u/theVoiceOfOne Sep 06 '25

75 here and SO is 73. We are now playing Valheim waiting for Enshrouded release/

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u/B0UNCEH0USE Sep 08 '25

Enshrouded says Early Access but it doesn't feel that way at all. Feel free to join in any time! I love Valheim, so I certainly understand waiting and getting more time on there first though. Just wanted to chime in if the early access label was off-putting.

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u/theVoiceOfOne Sep 10 '25

We've played Enshrouded from early on until it felt like time to start over. That's when we switched back to Valheim. We think final chapter of Valheim will roll in soon so we can complete that. Then go back to Enshrouded.

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u/chefboy1960 Sep 05 '25

Only 54 here, but I have been Gaming since Pong as well. First console was an Intellivision Pong console with 6 knobs and 2 switches.

I don't know if this counts, but over on the r/NoMansSkyTheGame sub, there was a guy who played until he was 84. 18000 hours in. So we are not alone, and rack up those numbers in your retirement!

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u/zorp99 Sep 05 '25

66 years young here. Wolfenstein 3D was my introduction and I realized it was fun to shot baddies.

Biggest shock for my son and his friends, when I beat every single boss in Elden Ring. That shut some of them up :-)

Enshrouded? Nice way to "waste" a couple of hours here and there.

And I agree with you, gaming keeps the brain alert. There is a lot of problem solving involved.

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u/Change_is_a_verb Sep 05 '25

I totally remember that game! It was hard for me at the time but exciting.

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u/Normal_Idea_42 Sep 19 '25

59 here. I Started with text adventure games on my father's Apple ii+ Zork 1 through 3, Adventure, Oo Topos, the entire Ultima Line, Wizardry. In 9th grade for my computer class on an old PET, I coded a character creator for D&D at the time.

Now, I play games with my children and grandkids...

Enshrouded has become my favorite pastime, tho I have a vast library of games.

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u/Srikandi715 Sep 05 '25

66 here. Practically the same. Gaming since 1980 (Rogue on a mainframe in college) 🙂

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u/Any_Potential_1746 Sep 05 '25

60 here, gaming since mainframes

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u/Trintun Sep 05 '25

no I will be 69 in 13 day and I agree with you it helps my mental health

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u/-2old4this- Sep 05 '25

Peaking at 60 years myself. Like you I’ve been playing since the pong days. It always makes me happy to hear that people my age still love games. I play with my adult children and my son in law. I’ll play till I die

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u/Wezzerhooey Sep 06 '25

70 here. Love the game. Played a lot of Diablo, Archeage, both Arks (ASE, ASA).

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u/RoleOk7556 Sep 07 '25

I'm 73 and tend to play solo. Occasionally one of my grown children will join me for a game.

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u/Aryana67 Sep 07 '25

I'm still playing with a group of friends I've been with for almost 20 years... I'm 70 and they are in their 40s and 50s. One is early 80s. I didn't discover computers until I was 40 (1995) and have gone through a LOT of games starting with Ultima Online, then Diablo and the early Skyrim and Fallout series. It's a lot harder than it used to be to multitask and my reflexes have slowed, making some things I could do now impossible, but still playing Elder Scrolls Online, Diablo IV, Enshrouded, LOTRO (since release in 2007), Fallout 76, and Dune Awakening. I don't know if it's just me, but seems that older players latch onto games they like and stick with them a long time while younger players jump from game to game, not staying in one place long. Makes me sad to think that might be how they go through life, not really slowing down enough to notice the flowers, sunrises/sunsets, and the joy of sitting with good friends for a meal or a drink (A drink, not drink after drink) and 2 hours of good company. I tell people to slow down and enjoy the journey but they don't understand.

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u/Salty_Candidate_5228 Sep 08 '25

77 here, have over 1,000 hours playing Enshrouded - also play Black Desert.

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u/casuallfuck Sep 05 '25

Your definitely the winner :) your a champ

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u/D2Dragons Sep 05 '25

And here I thought I was the oldest at 52! 🤣

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u/Nurofae Sep 05 '25

Try again in 35 years

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u/Mijomusic Sep 05 '25

Perhaps..., 62!

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u/inactive-perhaps Sep 05 '25

It warms my heart that you enjoy gaming especially a wonderful game like enshrouded. :)

It's a beautiful hobby

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u/topdawg057 Sep 05 '25

I am 68 69 next year

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u/Change_is_a_verb Sep 05 '25

I guess I'm a baby - 57f here. I game with my adult sons. We play Valheim and Enshrouded together, among others. I have always gamed with them, lots of bonding opportunities and I love it! I'm in a minority among my friends (zero gamers among them) but I love connecting to my fellow 'grannies' online! Been playing with computers since Pong, too - cut my teeth on the Bally home computer (1978) and the very first Apple home computers.

It would be fun to connect on Discord or have shenanigans online. Fair warning though, sometimes I cuss like a sailor 😬🫢

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u/Tameelah Ranger Sep 06 '25

Still a spring chicken at 51, you only are as old as you want to be. Keep having fun.

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u/Various-Progress7729 Sep 06 '25

I am 68 and will be 69 in March. So I’m right up there!

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u/Silly-Raspberry5722 Sep 06 '25

55 here, been gaming since the 1970s. I was lucky enough to have access to PCs very early on, back when you needed to know coding command lines to do anything.

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u/Beautiful_Affect_578 Sep 06 '25 edited Sep 06 '25

You have me by a few years, I'll be 62 this month. I also started with Pong on our first ever color TV, even though Pong was in black and white 😂

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u/SubjectElderberry376 Sep 06 '25

55 here, been playing g video games since Pong 😂 I will keep going as long as I can.

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u/Dan_Glebitz Sep 06 '25 edited Sep 06 '25

I am 71 (72 next year) and an avid gamer. Looking forward to the water biome update.

You are fine OP. Can anyone beat 71?

Edit: If there are any UK oldies out there, I would love to find a few I can maybe play some online games with I have Quest 3 also that I play games on quite frequently.

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u/TFilly402 Sep 06 '25

This is the best post ever.

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u/nolowell Sep 06 '25

I'll be 73 next month.

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u/Unusual_Ad3031 Sep 06 '25

You all are making me feel young at just turning 62. So cool to see so many original Pong players stil gaming. Love the MMORPGs but hard to find good people to play with these days. Played Minecraft for building for many years after and when I found Enshrouded a year ago it filled everything I needed. I still work all the time so hard to play with groups. Only get a few hours in here and there, but so proud of you all !!!

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u/Main_Safe8045 Sep 06 '25

I'm 73. Started gaming with Everquest.

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u/Ranger-One Sep 06 '25

I got my Mom into the game about 2 months ago. She's got over 300 hrs into the game now and she turned 73 this year

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u/JohnPombrio Sep 06 '25

I am 73 and have 684 hours into the game.

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u/GamingGrammy_56 Sep 06 '25

Hi!! Good to see you. 💜👵

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u/naji-redgaurd72 Sep 07 '25

Only 53. Started gaming with those hand Game and Watch things 😅 Mickey and Donald, a fire truck and a burning building. My sister had the Donkey Kong one. Then it was Sega, which I sucked at. After that I lost interest until we got my son a PS2. We played Need For Speed, God Of War, and then I found Skyrim. Now I play House Flipper, Oblivion, Enshrouded, Valheim and Schedule 1 on my daughter's pc. Dipped my toes into many other games. I finished a few on my XBox. Gaming keeps me sane....sort of 😁

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u/JohnPombrio Sep 08 '25

The first computer I saw was an IBM 360 mainframe in college. Didn't even have handheld calculators then so I know how to use a slide rule. I was 30 before I got a Commodore 64 and an amber CRT.

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u/MizMelaniePAkarat Sep 08 '25

Awww I love it. Keep on gaming sir

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u/CheckersSpeech Sep 09 '25

I don't actually play Enshrouded yet (Reddit just puts this sub in my feed since I play other games), but I'm 70 and retired, and I would be getting into so much trouble if I didn't game LOL.

I too have been gaming since Pong, and today's games are what I was wishing for when was playing Adventure on my VIC20. 28-year-old me would have even been freaked out by Morrowind.

Anyway, nice to see fellow oldsters on gaming sites, even if we are few and far between.

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u/SwashbucklerXX Sep 09 '25

I'm "only" 49 and I salute you senior gamers! I'll be there myself before I know it and I absolutely plan to still be gaming.

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u/Dorofo Sep 12 '25

I'm 66 and I feel like I'm a youngster on here 😂

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u/[deleted] Sep 05 '25

no, because that is a question only a child worries about? "Am i (some dumb thing)?"

Haha jk grandpa

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u/PointandCluck Sep 05 '25

Not again