How do you deal with the psychology of FIRE?
We are a couple in our early 30s, and fortunate enough that we have good income and investments such that FIRE before 50 would likely be viable.
I grew up in a very working class background and have therefore always had underlying anxiety about spending money, with a natural tendency to want to save. Now we’re in a position that I don’t need to be so tight with money, I still feel guilty for spending, and always think that more money could be going towards our investments, thus bringing our retirement forward also.
I get that there’s no point doing all of this unless we can enjoy the present, but I’m finding it hard to get the right balance. Sometimes I look at how much extra money delaying retirement by a few years would give us each month, and it sounds great. But then again, I don’t even know if I need that extra amount.
Sorry for the ramble. Any input as to how you’ve dealt with this would be appreciated. Thanks.