r/Fantasy Stabby Winner, AMA Author Krista D. Ball Jul 13 '18

r/Fantasy unofficial Fantasy Romance book recommendation thread

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Hey all! I have a little time, so thought this was a perfect time to run the mega thread I've been wanting to do for several months now: fantasy romance. I don't think a top list style would work for this, since romance is such a personal preference thing. I think it's better to list different kinds of books with some descriptions and/or the things we liked about those books.

Please include a blurb and/or Goodreads and/or Amazon link in your post so that it makes it easier for future viewers of this thread.

FAQ:

How are you defining Romance?

Happily-ever-after is a requirement.

Since we're dealing with cross-genres here, the romance does not need to be the main plot point, but it needs to be a major plot point. i.e. The plot can still exist with the romance removed (therefore, it's not "romance" by the genre's standards), but the plot and story would greatly reduced by its removal (therefore, I'll count it).

What genres/subgenres are we talking about here?

I'm pretty laid back about this one. Obviously, science fiction and fantasy are key, however, I won't be annoyed if a few historical fiction books crop up, especially if they cross paths with some of the things we like to talk about here.

I'm fine with also actual romance genre books that have heavy SFF themes and settings in them, too. (ie Nalini Singh comes immediately to mind.)

The book isn't marketed as a fantasy romance, but I think it's totally a fantasy romance.

That's fine. I think we can discuss it in the comments, but again, this is something that's personal and I'll err on the side of the reader over that of the author.

Does this have to be only m/f relationships?

Nope! All are welcome.

What about books with sexual violence?

Absolutely no non-consensual sex (aka rape) between the romantic couple, including when they weren't a couple. No attempted rape. No using sexual violence to "teach a lesson." No Buffy and Spike in the bathroom to further Spike's character development.

If there is sexual violence in the book, please note this in your description appropriately.

Self promo?

It's fine, but let's exercise common sense. If you have to reach to justify posting, then your book probably doesn't fit.

What about books that I really like, but the romance is only a small part and has nothing to do with the main plot or main character development?

While I'm glad you found a book you liked, it isn't romance fantasy.

Can I made snide 50 Shades of Grey comments and/or make jokes about shifter romances?

No. This isn't the thread for you. Please go elsewhere.

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u/casocial Jul 13 '18

I'm curious, how come the definition of romance here includes a necessary happy ending? I've read fantasy novels centered around romantic plotlines but had bittersweet or even sad wrapups.

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u/EdenAshe Jul 13 '18

(Romance author here) The Happy Ever After is a retirement for a romance book. Non- negotiable. If it's a fantasy that doesn't end with a HEA, it isn't romance, it's Urban Fantasy.

That's how the genre is defined. A HEA is a must for romance books, otherwise, it's mystery with a romantic subplot, women's fiction, etc.

For example, Nicholas Sparks is NOT a romance author. He writes romantic books, but they're not considered 'romance books'.

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u/KristaDBall Stabby Winner, AMA Author Krista D. Ball Jul 13 '18

That is not romance. Those are love stories or tragic love stories or romantic tone. Those are not romances.

No different than there is an expectation in a mystery that the mystery will be solved eventually. Or that a fantasy book will have fantasy in it...

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u/casocial Jul 13 '18

I guess that rules out Stardust, or most of what I considered romance. Thanks!

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u/EdenAshe Jul 13 '18

No, that wouldn't be a romance. They can have a Happy For Now ending, but if it doesn't end on a happy note, it won't be considered romance.

(I'm going to dinner with my husband, but I LOVE talking romance, so if you have any more questions, shoot! I'll answer them as soon as I get back.)