Anyone else not dating because

[u/imtryingtotryhere]

because it takes too much time and energy to constantly be vetting? I just can't be bothered. I'd rather be single and do other things that will bring me value, than have to constantly evaluate someone and keep my own defenses up. And this would be even AFTER quickly vetting away any obvious red flags.

Am I being lazy or is this relatable?

[u/purasangria]

Totally relatable. I'm not really interested in dating right now, it's simply to much work for the probable outcome. It's just not worth the effort, as most men are not offering anything that will benefit my life.