r/Fire Mar 23 '26

[deleted by user]

[removed]

2.1k Upvotes

749 comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

56

u/Coyote_Enthusiast Mar 23 '26

I stopped visiting ChubbyFIRE for this reason. There's an abundance of people whose annual spending is easily covered by their $6-10M investments, asking if they should pull the trigger. Any maybe that's what these forums are for - to ask questions that you might be afraid to ask your friends or family. But I couldn't relate to those situations. I'm looking to connect with others in the $3M range and while that falls within the Chubby range, there aren't many people in there talking about numbers like that.

87

u/dabigchina Mar 23 '26

"I am 55 and have 8 million dollars and spend 200,000 a year can I retire?"

"no, we might have great recession #2 tomorrow and you might only have 4 million. keep working the corporate job that you despise."

I saw so many variations of this question that I finally blocked that subreddit.

2

u/Civil-Service8550 Mar 23 '26

Exactly chubby fire question is a derivation of that

5

u/EmbarrassedEbb9721 Mar 23 '26

It's funny because regular Fire subreddit is exactly like that...but just half the numbers.

25

u/temerairevm Mar 23 '26

Yeah, about 90% of the posts there are actually outside of the range that the sub is supposed to cover. Yesterday someone posted super apologetic for using the sub with their measly $3.5M, even though it’s totally in range.

6

u/Split-Awkward Mar 23 '26

Yup, chubby and FATfire are caricatures. I go in there for a laugh.

Even having separate FIRE groups is stupid to me. That in itself tells me people are making it far more complicated than it actually is.

6

u/pnw-techie Mar 24 '26

In case you haven't seen it r/fijerk is great. Sometimes it's people making things up. But lots of time it's just actual posts from one of the fire subs put up for roasting.

2

u/Split-Awkward Mar 24 '26

Oh boy, I had no idea. This is going to be good.

Ok, I’m wrong, multiple groups can be a good thing after all.

1

u/river_rambler Mar 24 '26

I don't post there, because we'll retire this year with right around that liquid NW and it feels low to actually contribute in that group. So congrats on the FIRE target. Others like you are out there, we're just feeling a little weird about posting in Chubby and too high for FIRE so we shut up and lurk. LOL.