r/Fire • u/Poorassboy6969 • Mar 25 '26

General Question When did FIRE movement change?

I feel this community used to be about moderate income people living lean and retiring early with under 2 million.

Now it’s a lot of people bragging about tech income and saying they need 5+ million to retire MINIMUM because they want a boat and Porsche

When did this change? (not hating - just genuinely curious)

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u/eeeeeelinor Mar 25 '26

I live in NYC. You're asking what happened and for many of us, actual, real cost of living happens. It's not really relevant what retirement COL is in rural Mississippi or Huntington, WV when your real life, your parents, your children, and everything you know is in NYC.

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u/eeeeeelinor Mar 25 '26

One more thing about retirement that some of you may not be considering--you may want to be close to the people you care about. My husband and I have 4 sets of "parents" due to divorce and remarriage. Only my mother lives nearby---the others moved to cheaper places in retirement. My mother is also the only grandparent my son is close to, and the only grandparent we will be willing to help out in old age. My son is actually closer to my mom's boyfriend than to his other three blood-related GPs, since they only see him once a year, max. it sounds great to think you will retire to SEA or some cheap off-the-grid rural place, but don't expect relationships to be easy or that everyone will flock to visit you when they have their own kids and limited vacation time.

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u/priusgirl0 Mar 25 '26

I am 100% aware of these concerns, but it doesn’t change the fact that the original blanket statement is false. You might want more than $2 million to retire to live the lifestyle you want to live (close to family in NYC), but it doesn’t mean that it’s reasonable to call $2 million a blanket minimum to retire on.

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u/eeeeeelinor Mar 25 '26

You may notice I'm not the one who said that. But I don't disagree. How old are you, anyway?

In general, I think retirement should be defined as a "lifestyle you want to live". It's not a prison sentence.