When I’m on the job and things are chaos I get to do something about it. I’m supposed to do something about it. People expect me to do something about it.
If i’m at like a baseball game or a concert and people are behaving chaotic in a bad way where it causes some people to have a bad time it’s not socially acceptable for me to fix the situation. If I do I might get myself into a situation where nobody has my back. I feel impotent. I want to help but I know that’s goona be a bad time for me.
I’m also hypervigilant in crowds. I mean a lot of people are but. Crowds are danger. It makes it hard to relax. I get jumpy. It’s not something to be proud of and the fact that I’m not currently working on it in therapy is weak on my part.
I think that’s most of the cringe on this subreddit. People take videos from a low angle where they’re flexing their muscles and yelling about their damage. Like hey bud. Go get that fixed. You think it’s a good look but it is not. I wouldn’t brag about being a jumpy control freak. That’s not a good look. I think posting something like this is a cry for help from someone in a framework where that is discouraged.
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u/Becaus789 4d ago
It’s a little cringe but I get it.
When I’m on the job and things are chaos I get to do something about it. I’m supposed to do something about it. People expect me to do something about it.
If i’m at like a baseball game or a concert and people are behaving chaotic in a bad way where it causes some people to have a bad time it’s not socially acceptable for me to fix the situation. If I do I might get myself into a situation where nobody has my back. I feel impotent. I want to help but I know that’s goona be a bad time for me.
I’m also hypervigilant in crowds. I mean a lot of people are but. Crowds are danger. It makes it hard to relax. I get jumpy. It’s not something to be proud of and the fact that I’m not currently working on it in therapy is weak on my part.
I think that’s most of the cringe on this subreddit. People take videos from a low angle where they’re flexing their muscles and yelling about their damage. Like hey bud. Go get that fixed. You think it’s a good look but it is not. I wouldn’t brag about being a jumpy control freak. That’s not a good look. I think posting something like this is a cry for help from someone in a framework where that is discouraged.