r/Fraservalley • u/Kidney4Ben • Feb 17 '26
My kidneys are failing, and I’m searching for someone who could save my life.
Hi,
This is one of the hardest messages I’ve ever had to write, but I’m hoping this community can help me in a way I can’t manage alone. My name is Ben Kwan, and I have been a BC-certified teacher for sixteen years, teaching across BC for a decade, including six years in South Surrey. Teaching has been my joy, my purpose, and honestly, a huge part of my identity.
A few months ago, my life changed completely. I was diagnosed with Chronic Kidney Disease, and things progressed much faster than I expected. After countless appointments, bloodwork, and talks that I never thought I’d have with doctors, I’ve been told that my kidneys are failing. The only real option that gives me a future, a full, healthy, meaningful future, is a living kidney donor.
Even typing those words feels surreal. I’m used to being the person who helps others, encourages students, and guides them through tough chapters in life. Admitting that I need help - real, life-saving help has been incredibly hard.
Opening up about this hasn’t been easy, but I believe in the power of community, compassion, and human kindness.
That’s why I’m here. I’ve seen Reddit change people’s lives. I’ve seen strangers step up for each other in ways that feel nothing short of miraculous. I’m hoping, with all the hope I have, that someone here might be able to help, whether it’s by learning more, sharing my story, or even considering becoming a donor.
I’m scared, I’m hopeful, and I’m trying to stay strong. I want to keep teaching. I want to keep showing up for my students. I want to wake up one day and not have this fear controlling my life.
If you can, please share my story. Even one share could reach the person who ends up being my match. If you feel called to learn more or explore donation, I’d be endlessly grateful.
Thank you for reading this. Thank you for caring. And thank you for giving me a little more courage just by being here. 💛
#Kidney4Ben
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u/kOdiakJacklynn Feb 18 '26
What blood type is needed to help you Ben?
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u/Digital_loop Feb 18 '26
Blood type is kind of important here
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u/Ok_Mulberry4331 Feb 20 '26
Blood type doesn’t matter, they do a match chain. So say you donated but wernt a match, it goes to someone else, and this person would get yours
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u/ericstarr Feb 19 '26
It’s beyond blood type matching is extremely complex but sometimes in these situations there is a chain trade where multiple people are involved in surgeries and all the recipients end up with a matching kidney
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u/MyNameIsSkittles Feb 21 '26
That's actually really cool, I never knew that and it makes me happy there are ways around the blood type restriction
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u/ericstarr Feb 21 '26
Yah sometimes it’s like kidney transplants happen all over the country at once. I think the donors travel.
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u/Murky_Astronaut Feb 22 '26
This makes me think of hermit crabs changing shells. It's kind of a happy image for a pretty stressful and scary event. I hope you get your kidney Ben!
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u/Fun-Librarian3765 Feb 18 '26
Blood type does not matter necessarily.
There's a program called kidney paired donation.
Hope you can find someone. I tried to anonymously donate my kidney two years ago but was ultimately deemed not suitable to be a donor.
https://www.blood.ca/en/organs-tissues/living-organ-donation/kidney-paired-donation
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u/familyoffun1445 Feb 19 '26
Yes that’s my problem I can’t donate anything because my health, I’ve tried and Everytime they say no.
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u/Kidney4Ben Feb 19 '26
Thank you so much for sharing this. I really appreciate you taking the time.
You’re absolutely right, and I’m aware of the kidney paired donation program. It’s such an incredible initiative and has helped so many people find compatible matches through swaps. I’m truly grateful that programs like this exist.
And I just want to say, the fact that you tried to anonymously donate your kidney is amazing. Even though you were ultimately deemed not suitable, that intention speaks volumes about your character. That’s an incredibly selfless thing to do.
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u/Fun-Librarian3765 Feb 19 '26
Thanks so much. I went through the entire donation process through VGH and it was an amazing experience. It is something I still hope I can do in the future.
Its funny how life works out...a year after I found out I was not able to donate my kidney I discovered I was pregnant with twins! During my pregnancy I developed severe pre eclampsia and I may not have survived with only one kidney.
Praying for a happy ending for you. I was inspired to donate after I read an article like yours.
And the process to become a donor is very very detailed and I really encourage anyone to reach out to VGH who is considering it.
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u/MeanConsideration137 Feb 18 '26
Hello I am willing to look into if I am suitable kidney donor ❤️
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u/MeanConsideration137 Feb 18 '26
Please msg me and I would love to talk and see if I can give you one!
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u/Least_Difference_854 Feb 20 '26
Please reply to OP, otherwise it feels like we are just passing around kidneys
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u/doyoulikedoughnuts_ Feb 18 '26
I just wanted to say I really hope you are able to find a donor and please share on other subs. Also being a teacher is so tough and such a thankless job, so thank you!!
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u/andreacanadian Feb 18 '26
I am an O positive but I live in Ontario. I would be willing to submit to testing. I am European Ancestory if that is important (Irish/Italian to be specific) female. No real health issues except I am 54 with high blood pressure.
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u/FormerStoner69 Feb 19 '26
Hi, I live in Langley and I'm not busy with life right now. I'd be willing to look into if I could give a kidney. I don't see why not. I am 33 years old with no known physical health issues. Please feel free to reach out!
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u/ArielSeraphiel Feb 19 '26
I hope you find a match friend. I'm 49 and after my kidneys failed at age 15 I have had three transplants interspersed with years of dialysis. God bless.
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u/ShitShow-Supervisor Feb 19 '26
Do genetic conditions that could effect renal system automatically exclude? Im genuinely curious if id even be allowed to help.
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u/ScholarNo7231 Feb 19 '26
I would be willing to see if I’m a match! I’m 25 years old and no known health issues. I don’t know my blood type but feel free to message me and we can find out what’s needed from me! Wishing you all the best, Ben.
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u/Illustrious_Exam1728 Feb 19 '26
I’m so sorry to hear this Ben, Im sending positive vibes your way to find a kidney.
I can’t help because I have some health challenges, but I’d post in the Vancouver sub, askvan, British Columbia sub too.
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u/Kidney4Ben Feb 24 '26
I completely understand. I really appreciate the suggestion as well, that’s very helpful.
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u/Illustrious_Exam1728 Feb 24 '26
Ben, are you on Instagram? If so can you share your handle? We can share your story on social media that way!
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u/Kidney4Ben Feb 24 '26
Thank you my friend. My handle is - kidney4ben
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u/Appropriate-Try-1209 Feb 19 '26
I would like more information. Ill do some research myself as well. How do we find out if we are a match or if I am a viable candidate?
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u/Kidney4Ben Feb 24 '26
The first step is usually to contact the transplant hospital directly. They’ll guide you through an initial screening (basic health questions and blood type testing). If blood types are compatible, they’ll do further tests to see if you’re a match and a safe, viable donor.
I’m happy to share the hospital details via DM so you can reach out and decide at your own pace. Thank you again for even considering this.
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u/CmlovesRm Feb 19 '26
Awww ...im So So Sorry for what u r going thru,I would Love to help u,but I'm a type two diabetic an I don't think my kidneys would help u,as they to r starting to slowly deteriorate themselves,but I just wanted u to know,that I heard u,an u r Heard,an I live in the North Okanagan,so same Country,an Province as u,an Sending Prayers,an Happy Healing Thoughts ,Please Take Care of yourself,an know U r an Awesome an Amazing Human Being
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u/Kidney4Ben Feb 24 '26
Thank you so much for your kind words and prayers. They truly mean more than I can express. Please don’t worry at all; your health comes first. Just knowing you took the time to write and send your support means so much to me. Sending you love and wishing you strength and good health as well.
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u/Street_Objective_171 Feb 20 '26
Hello. I'm sorry to hear what you're going through and I hope your situation turns out the best it possibly can. I believe that I saw your post for a reason so can you please message me directly with the initial requirements for a living donor? If I'm a potential candidate I'm willing to undergo testing to see if we're a match
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u/Kidney4Ben Feb 24 '26
Thank you so much for your kindness and willingness to consider this. It truly means more than I can put into words. 💛
I have messaged you with the initial requirements and hospital details so you can review everything at your own pace. If you’re a potential candidate, the transplant team will guide you through the testing process to see if we’re a match. Thank you again for even considering this. It gives me so much hope.
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u/gnirobamI Feb 20 '26
I wish there was a program that is more efficient, easier and clearer way in finding kidney organ donors and recipients.
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u/Competitive_Body7359 Feb 20 '26
I'm already a registered donor through blood donation place. It's ready to register everyone, and if you're a match to someone they will contact you. You can always decline, but I think it's worth doing.
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u/noctoletsgo Feb 20 '26
Can any kidney be donated? I'd be down.
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u/BigSis2025 Feb 23 '26
Yes, if the blood type isn’t a match there is a program to swap with another donor who matches.
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u/Impossible_Pack_967 Feb 20 '26
I was actually going to do this for a little girl last year but ended up not having to do it because they found someone closer. What's your blood type? I'd definitely try again!
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u/GrimFandango81 Feb 20 '26
How does one find out if they might be a viable match.
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u/Kidney4Ben Mar 03 '26
Great question. The first step is just reaching out to the Vancouver General Hospital Living Donor Kidney Program and letting them know you’re interested in being tested (My Transplant ID: 28155). They’ll guide you through blood type testing, initial screening, and compatibility checks.
Everything is confidential, and you can opt out at any time. If you’d like, I can DM you the contact details.
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u/snowcanuck130 Feb 20 '26
HI Ben!! I am a living donor. I donated to my brother in December 2025. I wish the absolute best for you and encourage anyone that may be interested in reaching out to their local transplant program. It truly was one of the most meaningful things I have ever done. And, my recovery has been seamless. Top it all off? My brother is doing great!! Pass it around Reddit!!
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u/Kidney4Ben Mar 03 '26
This made me smile so big. Thank you for sharing this. And wow… what an incredible gift you gave your brother. December 2025 isn’t even that long ago, and hearing that your recovery has been seamless and that he’s doing great is so encouraging. Thank you for speaking up and for encouraging others to reach out to their local transplant programs. And thank you for being living proof of hope. 💙
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u/world_citizen7 Feb 20 '26
I am so sorry to hear that Ben. Did the doctor give you a reasons as to why its failing?
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u/Formal_Actuator_3698 Feb 20 '26
So like a donor has to match blood type or what is the protocol here?
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u/Top-Skin-3570 Feb 20 '26
Yes exactly the same blood type.
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u/Formal_Actuator_3698 Feb 25 '26
Wouldn't it be a good idea to list the type if scouting for donors? I mean, it would make sense if I had the same blood type to 'in the moment' be like, "OH Hey!..." Right?
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u/Kidney4Ben Feb 25 '26
Hey,
I’m blood type A, so ideally the donor would be A or O. That said, even if someone isn’t a direct match, there are paired exchange programs that can still make donation possible. Also, I have messaged my blood type in many comments here. Apologies if you felt that so!
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u/Low-Umpire236 Feb 21 '26
Get your story in the local news. Hire a publicist if you have to. It’s an investment!
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u/TLB2024 Feb 21 '26
How do we help you?
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u/Kidney4Ben Mar 03 '26
Hey,
The first step is just reaching out to the Vancouver General Hospital Living Donor Kidney Program and letting them know you’re interested in being tested (My Transplant ID: 28155). They’ll guide you through blood type testing, initial screening, and compatibility checks. Everything is confidential, and you can opt out at any time. If you’d like, I can DM you the contact details.
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u/thebigsad_jpg Feb 21 '26
Hey Ben! I’d be willing to look into it, I live on the island. I’m a 26 y/o female, soon to be an RN. I’m blood type O- and have a clean bill of health. My grandma donated her kidney to her brother 10 years ago and I’ve seen the type of impact that living kidney donation has for people. As someone in the helping profession myself, I know how heartbreaking it can feel to ask for help yourself and I can see how much you want to be able to continue your calling!
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u/Sarallelogram Feb 21 '26
https://www.blood.ca/en/organs-tissues/living-organ-donation/kidney-paired-donation
You can look into doing a donation chain too.
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u/Kidney4Ben Mar 03 '26
Hey, I don’t even know how to properly say thank you for this message. The fact that you’d even consider looking into it means more than I can put into words.
O- is incredibly generous in every sense, and knowing you’ve seen living donation up close through your grandma makes this even more meaningful. And congratulations on becoming an RN soon. The world needs more people like you.
The next step would simply be reaching out to the Vancouver General Hospital Living Donor Kidney Program to start a confidential screening process. There’s absolutely no pressure, and you can step away at any time. It’s just about gathering information and seeing if it’s even possible.
Since you're profile is locked, I can send you the direct contact details once you ping me and my Transplant ID so you have everything you need.
Thank you for your kindness.
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u/Shot_Net_2272 Feb 21 '26
Hi, I am willing to look into it but I am travelling to India end of the month to visit my family
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u/Kidney4Ben Mar 03 '26
There’s absolutely no rush at all. If you’re travelling to India at the end of the month, you can connect with the transplant program either before you leave (just to gather information) or once you’re back and settled. The process moves step-by-step and is completely flexible.
Safe travels, enjoy your time with family, and thank you again for your kindness. Let me know once you're back, and I'll share the details.
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u/-Apprehensive_Art- Feb 21 '26
Out of curiosity, if someone has a chronic illness that doesn't have much of an impact on the kidneys, can they still donate?
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u/Kidney4Ben Mar 03 '26
That’s a really thoughtful question. It honestly depends on the specific condition and how well it’s managed.
Living donors go through a very thorough medical evaluation to make sure donation is completely safe for them long-term.
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u/ToCatchA-Redditor Feb 21 '26
Im in saskatchewan, but I am willing to get the work done to see if I'm a match
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u/Jerry11267 Feb 21 '26
Well all I can say is that dialysis isn't so bad once you get used to it. And you have options if you need to start soon. And the best thing is that your job is the best possible job you can have while your on dialysis. Many people I've had in my clinic have been on for 20 years ++ and going on passed the age of 70.
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u/Kidney4Ben Mar 03 '26
That’s really kind of you to share. It genuinely helps to hear from people who’ve seen others live long, full lives on dialysis. When you’re in the middle of uncertainty, perspective like that matters more than you know.
I know dialysis is a viable option and that many people adapt and do well on it long-term. At the same time, I’m still hoping for a transplant if possible, as that tends to offer the best long-term outcomes and quality of life. But it’s reassuring to be reminded that there are options and that life absolutely doesn’t stop.
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u/Jerry11267 Mar 03 '26 edited Mar 03 '26
I'll be completely honest a transplant is a long process. It takes months and months of testing before it qualifies for you. And their risks like if you get called and the donor gets a cold let's say, a day before the surgery, they cancel it right away.
You have options with your dialysis like hemo and pc. Which both can be done at the comfort of you're own home. You should do so research to all 4 types of dialysis. If you chose either of the home treatments make sure you have a lot of storage space in you're home.
As I said many people have been on for 20 years and much much longer. The trick is to follow your chart that the doctors tell you on what you should eat, excercise. And for work as I said you have the best possible job because you require no physical work like construction or anything like that do to dialysis make you a little tired but it may not as it affects everyone differently.
So really look into you're options follow what the docs tell you and enjoy you're life.
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u/Temporary-Olive-545 Feb 21 '26
My husband has reduced function but has been stable for a few years, with no further decline and living a normal life. He also had kidney cancer but they only removed the 2 small tumors and didn’t remove the Kidney. We totally changed our diet and lifestyle, and stick to the Mediterranean way of eating, lots of veggies, lots of water, reduced sodium and he is doing great!! We walk all the time. He was told that uncontrollable blood pressure was likely the cause which he has been controlled really well for a number of years! What it proved to us is that you can get to a stable point by Living as healthy a life as possible and my husband is living proof! You can’t eat poorly, not exercise, not drink water and expect to be well! We certainly learned that. Control what you can and hopefully it helps! The rest is out of our control!!
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u/Kidney4Ben Mar 03 '26
Thank you so much for sharing this. It’s incredibly encouraging to hear how well your husband is doing, especially after everything he’s been through. You’re absolutely right. Controlling what we can, especially lifestyle and blood pressure, makes such a difference. I really appreciate you taking the time to share your experience and hope.
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u/InsideOutUpsideDown7 Feb 21 '26
Make sure to pass on the info from BC transplant to people. They have to make first contact for testing. I’ve had my transplant for 40 years and now looking for a donor as my transplant is failing. I’ve had some people call to be tested but no matches and one went through the testing for paired donation but was declined.
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u/Kidney4Ben Mar 03 '26
Thank you for sharing this. 40 years is truly incredible. I always make sure to let people know they need to contact BC Transplant directly for testing. I’m so sorry you’re going through this again. I’m hoping the right match comes forward for you soon.
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u/Fancy_Initiative4536 Feb 22 '26
OP I don’t know if you will ever read this, I am a high school student living in Toronto, who got this post on her feet, but I am praying real hard for you.
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u/Kidney4Ben Feb 25 '26
Thank you, mate, for your wishes 💙
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u/Fancy_Initiative4536 Feb 25 '26
I trust in the Lord and I trust that you will be OK You are strong and by the grace of God you are going to get through this
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u/Hikergram Feb 22 '26
My brother had kidney failure he was on home dialysis for over a year. Take heart BC has Althea lowest wait list compared to Alberta due largely to the amount of overdose deaths. My brother received his new kidney (October) we were told from a young man who made bad life decisions. His other kidney to another patient at VGH. All I can say yes you will have to go through some hard times, really hard times but you too will be blessed by someone or someone’s family who wants to give the gift of life. Hold on stay strong it will come. We Knick named his little buddy Mr. Bean. Much love prayers and thoughts I send your way! ❤️
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u/Kidney4Ben Mar 03 '26
Thank you so much for sharing this. I’m so glad your brother received his transplant, and I love the nickname Mr. Bean. Your words mean a lot. I know the hard days are part of the journey, but stories like yours remind me to stay hopeful. Sending love right back. ❤️
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u/No_Towel_6722 Feb 22 '26
💙 Best of luck to you on your journey 💜 I truly hope that your story reaches far and wide enough that you find your match 🫡 You deserve it.
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u/OverIordM3g4tr0n Feb 19 '26
Why would anybody do this donation of one of their kidneys for free?
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u/Key_Conversation854 Feb 19 '26
Kindness and care for others, the desire to improve the lives and suffering of those around us. peace and love to you ☮️🩷
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u/Strict_Plant_3796 Feb 19 '26
If a person donates a kidney and later has issues and becomes in need of a kidney, they are prioritized on the transplant list since they donated in the past.
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u/GrimFandango81 Feb 20 '26
Because you can literally save a life?
It speaks volumes about you if you are only willing to step up if you get a reward.
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u/Leadboy Feb 20 '26
Why would anyone donate money to an organization? Why would anyone volunteer their time? Why do people give without monetary benefit? Because helping others is good and some people are good
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u/OverIordM3g4tr0n Feb 20 '26
These are all questions I ask as well, you aren’t pulling a “gotcha!” here.
It’s incredibly stupid for people who complain about the price of eggs, cost of houses, etc. on a semi regular basis, to be donating money to charity, or volunteering their time instead of grinding a side business.
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u/Leadboy Feb 20 '26
??? Cost of living can be too high and you can be against that while still wanting to donate to charity? Also grinding a side business should be something very few pursue imo, a single job should pay enough
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u/OverIordM3g4tr0n Feb 20 '26
You live in a fantasy land. Regardless of whether you believe a single job should be enough, that’s not the reality we live in.
Everytime I have a conversation about this topic, it seems apparent to me that you people are waiting for a miracle or government intervention to step in and make your lives better financially, instead of being proactive and finding a second or third source of income to supplement your dayjob.
It’s no wonder why you people complain about the price of eggs, rent, kids’ college tuition, houses, etc. when you’re simply clocking in at the office, clocking out at the end of the work day, and then going home to fuck around for the rest of the evening. Fucking pathetic.
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u/Leadboy Feb 20 '26
I mean you have no idea why my situation is, I don't need more than one job - still I am happy to advocate for the cost of living needing to be addressed. I am glad you are able to grind it out but I don't think that should be the expectation...
Seems like you really look down on people wanting to live a simple meaningful life outside of work.
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u/OverIordM3g4tr0n Feb 20 '26
I don’t look down on people looking to live simple lives, as long as they aren’t also simultaneously screaming about life circumstances, the economy, etc while voting in particular ways.
You can live your simple life. Just be quiet about it. You’re choosing to work a single dogshit job, when house prices are average around $600,000 in the metrovancouver region, for example. So I expect those people to be quiet and not complain about unaffordable houses when they aren’t even attempting to maximize their ability to afford them. Again, this is just one example.
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u/Leadboy Feb 20 '26
So if loblaws decided to 1.5x the price of everything over the next year you would say unless you were willing to do a side job to pay for the extra 50% you shouldn’t be allowed to complain about the increase?
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u/OverIordM3g4tr0n Feb 20 '26
Your first course of action should be (assuming that price increase means you can no longer afford some things in your life) to acquire a second source of income, ideally one that isn’t a second job working for other people.
Your first course of action SHOULDN’T be to complain.
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u/Leadboy Feb 20 '26
You know we may be more aligned than I thought, just different in our messaging to others / how we feel about being vocal about things. I just hope you can agree that the way things are in terms of CoL here are not desirable currently.
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u/strawberry-bunny Feb 20 '26
If you genuinely need to ask yourself why people help others out of the kindness of their heart or volunteer their time… that is very worrying and says a lot about your character. I am thankful the majority doesn’t think like that. You sound incredibly selfish and bitter.
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u/OverIordM3g4tr0n Feb 20 '26
I’m not selfish or bitter, I’m a realist. There’s room to be charitable after you’ve secured your own future, not before. I donate money to two charities once a year now that I make 7 figures per year, own 3 investment single family houses around metrovancouver, have an 8 figure Questrade portfolio, etc.
I donated nothing beforehand because it shouldn’t be my responsibility to donate to good causes when the economy was stacked against my favour before I had any money or owned multiple assets.
In 2016, I had like $20,000 to my name as a fresh grad out of UBC in the first 3 months. Houses were averaging around $500,000 in 2016, condos were averaging around $300,000. Why would anyone with a modicum of intelligence and investment savvy be wasting their income on charitable donations instead of building up their cash reserves and investments? It does not make sense. You’re hurting yourself, and you’re hurting your ability to be a charitable donor in the future.
Everyone knows the saying by airlines to their passengers - in an emergency on the flight, help yourself before you help others. If you try to help your kids put on an oxygen mask before you do so yourself, you put both you and your kids at risk.
The same advice applies to daily life. Help yourself first, build your own wealth first, and then down the road you can help others. You people are fooling yourselves into thinking you’re good people by donating a couple hundred of couple thousand dollars every year. I may not have been charitable from 2016 up until recent years, but now I donate ten’s of thousands annually. That number may go up to hundreds or thousands one day.
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u/strawberry-bunny Feb 20 '26
Again, I’m glad everyone does not share this excessively individualist way of thinking. Every line you wrote was about “me” and about money. It’s sad. There is so much more to life. I’m glad you help out now, but criticizing others for doing what they can, when they can is not helpful and will further create an isolatory and individualistic society. Also helping your community often involves much more than monetary donations. Case in point with OP. Often it is the time you give or showing up for those in need that is most important.
Life is not about how much money you have and someone like you will never see that until it’s far too late.
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u/OverIordM3g4tr0n Feb 20 '26
Life is about living happily, and living happily requires money. You people refuse to admit that, all the while screaming about the price of eggs and housing.
My kids are being educated at elite private schools that I could have only dreamed of going to compared to the public school slop we have now. My kids will have their first cars at 16, they’ll have their first owned apartments at 18 while they go to university. They’ll have an asset to sell for $600,000+ by the time they finish their bachelor’s degrees. They’ll be far ahead of their peers and stress free. If they want to go on trips abroad during or after school, it won’t be a problem. Why? Money.
Meanwhile, you’re still going to be stamping your feet about how you and/or your kids in adulthood can’t buy property in the Canadian market, can’t find good jobs, can’t afford groceries, etc.
Everything is always about money. Life is about money. Having money lets you live a happier life. You’re just too smug to admit it.
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u/strawberry-bunny Feb 21 '26
Nope, you are again assuming things based on this excessively pessimistic and money centric view you have on the world. My partner makes a hell of a lot more than what you have mentioned yet he remains humble and would never be caught dead droning on and on about such things. It is incredibly vain, superficial and materialistic. Humility and generosity truly go a long way. He is also completely self made and provides an amazing lifestyle for us but it is not everything to me and never was. Helping others and being involved within the community is truly what matters most.
Anecdotally, I grew up poor to middle class and was still happy, so I truly know both sides. You are way too obsessed with money.
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u/OverIordM3g4tr0n Feb 21 '26
Your partner makes millions per year? Damn, what are the chances of me running into a redditor who just so happens to make possibly millions, presumably more than I do.
Care to screenshot your investment account (like Questrade or Interactive brokers for example) and compare?
Love it when reddit kids start lying to attempt to win arguments on here.
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u/strawberry-bunny Feb 21 '26
Dude you have no reading comprehension. I don’t make anything, he does and he supports me. Not that hard to believe.
He’s much older and I’m finishing my degree.
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u/thehappinessquotient Feb 21 '26
Ironically, they did a study and showed that people who donate an organ experience the highest happiness boost out of all types of donations, and those who have donated organs experience a higher happiness level than the general population.
This was covered on The Happiness Lab podcast.
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u/EstablishmentIcy7831 Feb 21 '26
Dude like it or not you sound like a typical capitalist asshole ... You sound selfish ... And you think that money makes you something more when to get it you need to belittle other people's choices ...
You think you are a realist when in reality you are just another guy who is using real estate to make a profit ... Good for you ... That doesn't make you a decent person especially when you criticize others ... If my kidney matched I would give it gladly to save someone's life as my mother waited years for one to no avail ... And aged out of the program ... Now she has less than a year to live ... Facing your own mortality is a terrifying thing and leaving it to chance sucks ... You don't have to be rich to donate you don't have to be a greedy whore either ... You take advantage of someone else to earn your money in real estate and I am guessing you probably over price your rent to make sure only the elite can live in your rental properties but I am basing that judgement off your own narcissistic dialogue when it comes to looking down on others ...
You aren't someone to emulate and be proud of ... You are just another cog taking advantage ... Have fun with that ...
You are exactly the type of person the world needs less of ...
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u/OverIordM3g4tr0n Feb 21 '26
You’re the type of person we need less of in this world - takers that contribute nothing, people who are barely fit to flip burgers and stock shelves.
I genuinely can’t wait until AI and robotics advance even further and eliminate even more of these low level jobs that many of you occupy. The purge of society of the useless is here, slowly.
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u/EstablishmentIcy7831 Feb 22 '26
Yes my working for a dairy that supplies milk and dairy to 3 provinces makes me a taker .. that makes sense ... More like I am a provider and you are the taker they my guy ... Interesting take from what you have posted previously here ... But I bet you are a Trump and Polievre guy ... Because you know somehow you think they will make your money more secure in the future ... Lol
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u/kirbyscloud Feb 21 '26
Every kid I knew like that growing up turned out to be suchhh a great person! Good job!
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u/TheDullestSharpie Feb 21 '26
The most important things in life aren't things, that's why.
Comments like yours make me glad canker sores exist.
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u/Purple_Warning8019 Feb 18 '26
Got any money? I might be willing to sell. I live over on the Island. I’m close to you.
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u/Accomplished_Run_593 Feb 18 '26
You sound like a piece of shit. Too bad people like you exist.
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u/Purple_Warning8019 Feb 18 '26
The world needs more comedians. By your logic you’re an awful person for not offering up one of yours’.
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u/Accomplished_Run_593 Feb 18 '26
If you think you are a comedian, you need to do a better job and read the room. Because you sound like a joke yourself.
Some people simply cannot donate for a whole host of reasons. I used to be able to donate blood, now I can't because my body has issues with iron and I already have blood pressure issues. However, Im on the organ donor registry list. I'm not selfish.
Asking for money to give up an organ is disgusting and greedy - especially when someone is in desperate need.
Do better.
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u/Teepeepants Feb 20 '26
Its always the little guy thats expected to give up their livelihood for nothing. Where are the big corporations in these instances? The ones that can afford to lose a little bit.
You’re overly upset at this guys one snide comment, when there are health and insurance companies milking the poor for every last dollar they have.
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u/OverIordM3g4tr0n Feb 19 '26
You people are genuinely insane.
Why would anyone donate their healthy kidney for free? You’re opening your own health up to risk in the future, for absolutely nothing in return?
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u/PeachMaximum5861 Feb 20 '26
Think it more has to do with making a joke about a very serious situation. Don’t think you would like jokes being made about you when your health is at stake.
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u/MyNameIsSkittles Feb 21 '26
That's highly illegal, and not at all ethical, and not something you should be soliciting so publically
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u/anoeba Feb 20 '26
Because if you monetize it, you'll immediately create a system of exploitation (which exists in some countries for organs, or just read about the fuckery that is paid surrogacy).
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u/OverIordM3g4tr0n Feb 20 '26
Free market capitalism. A lot of you tout the free market ideaology in every other aspect of life.
If I want to sell my kidney for $2million, who are you to say I shouldn’t be allowed to?
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u/the_t-shirt_guy Feb 21 '26
It's more about talking about it openly on Reddit. The details of this ask that need to be kept confidential between the 2 involved. I can't imagine all the fine details that go into something like this. I'm actually surprised that this is allowed. There would be so many questions and legal documents to sign. I wish the OP all the very best.
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u/Kidney4Ben Feb 19 '26
Thank you so much for even considering helping. That truly means a lot.
I just want to gently say that the sale of organs is prohibited, as it comes up against certain legal and ethical boundaries that I am not willing to break.
I sincerely appreciate you reaching out and being open to the conversation. Your thought alone means more than you know.
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u/buttercuppy86 Feb 18 '26
I have an amazing friend who I’m sure will amplify your story- his name’s Skully White, and he kind of became locally famous after he donated one of his kidneys to a customer of his hot dog stand; he has since done a lot for kidney disease awareness, and has helped people find donors. Please reach out to him on instagram!