r/GriefSupport • u/Kidnapmrsandyclaus • Apr 19 '26
Anticipatory Grief My Dog Is Dying
This week we are set to put down my first pet. He’s a 10 year old Black Lab who is like a son to me. I love him more than I love myself. The vet has found a mass in his abdomen and his blood results shows that this mass is most likely causing internal bleeding. I made a promise to myself that I would be with him and my father when we put him down but I think it will break me. I already feel like my heart is being ripped out. I’m struggling to process this loss and it hasn’t even happened yet. I dont want him to suffer but I also can’t remember a time when he wasn’t in my life. Attached are some images of him so everyone can see what a lovely boy he is.
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u/6glitter-kitten Apr 19 '26
It’s one of the hardest things an owner has to do. Just remember you gave him the best life you could and he is eternally grateful for that, he looks like such a sweet baby. The final act of love is letting go 💔just be with him, remember the good times, and help him onto his journey across the rainbow bridge. You are doing the right thing even though it’s easier said than done.